Rric Posted July 21, 2022 Share Posted July 21, 2022 Hello I am a boy and I am 32 years old. My partner is 43 years old and still a virgin. We have been having oral and fetish sex for a year and a few months. We have not had anal or vaginal sex. After this period, I have a strange mental state after sex. It's like I've gone crazy, like something is pressing on my chest, or my heart is racing, or I'm depressed, like I've never been like this. Most of the time, I imagine that I have to have vaginal sex, so is my problem a suggestion or has it gradually become a psychological problem? Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Ceebs Posted July 21, 2022 Share Posted July 21, 2022 Umm. Maybe talk to someone like a therapist? I'm not sure what to say. But if your sex life is making you that stressed/anxious/depressed, this isn't a great relationship for you to be in. It sounds like you're having panic attacks. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Rric Posted July 22, 2022 Author Share Posted July 22, 2022 On 7/21/2022 at 8:30 AM, Ceebs said: Umm. Maybe talk to someone like a therapist? I'm not sure what to say. But if your sex life is making you that stressed/anxious/depressed, this isn't a great relationship for you to be in. It sounds like you're having panic attacks. Tanks man yeah that is right i have panic attack Quote Link to post Share on other sites
toddygirl Posted July 29, 2022 Share Posted July 29, 2022 quick questiion. r u wanting to have intercourse but ur not being allowed to? Like is she wanting to hang onto her virginity? is that y ur stressing over it? Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Rric Posted August 27, 2022 Author Share Posted August 27, 2022 Yeah excellent! it Quote quick questiion. r u wanting to have intercourse but ur not being allowed to Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Rric Posted August 27, 2022 Author Share Posted August 27, 2022 On 7/29/2022 at 7:23 AM, toddygirl said: quick questiion. r u wanting to have intercourse but ur not being allowed to? Like is she wanting to hang onto her virginity? is that y ur stressing over it? Its true … yeah Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Ceebs Posted August 28, 2022 Share Posted August 28, 2022 So um, if she's 43 and still a virgin in the PiV sense... is it possible she's going to want to remain one forever? If you want to be having more than oral sex and doing fetish stuff, this probably isn't the relationship for you. You're relatively young; I'd urge you to seek a more well-matched partner. If I was over a year into a relationship with someone who wouldn't have PiV with me... well, I actually wouldn't be in that relationship any longer. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Rric Posted August 29, 2022 Author Share Posted August 29, 2022 You are right This is why I feel tormented ، I will talk to her soon and finish the relationship tank you Quote Link to post Share on other sites
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