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do asexuals masterbate?

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Blood Angel

I feel very confused about the fact I masturbate and feel like a sexual deviant when I lurk the internet for alternative hentai and all sorts but when I'm not browsing imageboards such as in real life meeting new people is the time when I don't feel a sexual attraction or even think about having sex with a person. My confusion lies in why there is such a difference to how my personality functions online and offline, there's somewhat of a contrast because I feel like a sexual person when I fap but talking to girls, like a boy just looking for somebody to love.

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lorca

sad to have love and be loved then to losse love :(

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Urban_Sidhe

I feel very confused about the fact I masturbate and feel like a sexual deviant when I lurk the internet for alternative hentai and all sorts but when I'm not browsing imageboards such as in real life meeting new people is the time when I don't feel a sexual attraction or even think about having sex with a person. My confusion lies in why there is such a difference to how my personality functions online and offline, there's somewhat of a contrast because I feel like a sexual person when I fap but talking to girls, like a boy just looking for somebody to love.

No worries I'm the same way :)

I think it would be interesting trying to explain this to a sexual though.

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Tals

Don't worry, I'm also the same.

I can't masturbate without the aid, but I don't like the aid. So I do it and quickly close it when I'm done. It's not that I'm ashamed, it's more that it looks disgusting to me after I'm finished.

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Necron

I don't really get an urge to masturbate - I'm not sure I even know how to do it properly. I've kinda 'pleasured' myself sometimes (and sometimes by accident). Sometimes it puts me in a weird, depressed mood, and everything seems really shitty and I feel disgusting. It's not that I feel ashamed about it, it's just some reaction I have to it.

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Blood Angel

I don't really get an urge to masturbate - I'm not sure I even know how to do it properly. I've kinda 'pleasured' myself sometimes (and sometimes by accident). Sometimes it puts me in a weird, depressed mood, and everything seems really shitty and I feel disgusting. It's not that I feel ashamed about it, it's just some reaction I have to it.

Maybe you're doing it wrong. I started when I was a teenager (about 13) and was doing it wrong to begin with, used to hump they call it and have heard others mention that's how they started so I'm not alone. Then started watching porn and it felt easy fapping with one hand the other browsing through porn until I find the best to ejaculate.

I never feel anything after it, other than relaxed. Some people are shamed by masturbation, but it's really a free pleasure and in this world, there's not many of them.

On the subject of masturbation, I will fap to the shade of someones skin or colour of their hair, the shape of their leg or shoulders. Do other asexuals feel that way, because from what I hear, sexuals fap purely to seeing the act of sex.

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Mellotron

i personally do. it's great when all you need is just a second of stress relief to get things back on track. which at this point in my life is a lot. almost makes me wish i was a woman so that i wouldn't have such a mess...

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KevYu

I do it when my mental capacities aren't enough to redirect the blood in the penis to another part of my body to make it go down. Its annoying waking up with an erection. I also practice Tantra as well, since it would be useful if I ever have to be with a sexual.

i personally do. it's great when all you need is just a second of stress relief to get things back on track. which at this point in my life is a lot. almost makes me wish i was a woman so that i wouldn't have such a mess...

Its possible to orgasm without ejaculating and to ejaculate without orgasming (Go tantra! I do a lot of things to be in control of my body and mind as best as I can). Ejaculating makes it go down faster but also makes a mess (but need to empty the storage eventually anyway), dry orgasms you can go either way, but usually its done for me.

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eamonn

By the by, can you recommend any resources for tantra?

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