Blanche Posted May 19, 2022 Share Posted May 19, 2022 Hi! First of all, I want to apologize, I don't speak English very well, so I use a translator. I’m a 19-year-old girl and I first thought about 3 years ago that I might be asexual. But I didn't want to believe that. I thought I was heterosexual first, then lesbian, then bisexual. I'm starting to believe I'm being asexual. I didn’t have a relationship yet, I was “in love” with a boy, but I could never imagine that we would kiss or physically anything would happen between us. I never fantasized and didn’t have “childhood loves”. When someone tells a boy that he looks good, I see that “that’s what people used to say is a nice boy” but I don’t feel anything. I look at the girls the same way. I can't imagine sleeping with anyone. I react strangely to the touch of people, I don’t know that’s typical of these asexual people. Sometimes it’s completely upset when someone touches me. I don't like being hugged or kissed. Sometimes, however, the touch doesn’t feel bad, but I panic a little about it. I want a relationship that has a partner in me, but I can’t imagine something physically happening between us. I thought a lot about what could be wrong with me because others have a connection and it is easy for them to hug, kiss, desire the other. I don't know that feeling. Do you think I'm sexual? 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Sarah-Sylvia Posted May 19, 2022 Share Posted May 19, 2022 Does sound asexual. And a bit touch averse maybe. Welcome, also Quote Link to post Share on other sites
steel_quill Posted May 19, 2022 Share Posted May 19, 2022 2 hours ago, Blanche said: I react strangely to the touch of people, I don’t know that’s typical of these asexual people. Sometimes it’s completely upset when someone touches me. I don't like being hugged or kissed. Sometimes, however, the touch doesn’t feel bad, but I panic a little about it. Like Sarah-Sylvia said, this sounds like you may have some degree of touch-averseness. 2 hours ago, Blanche said: desire the other. I don't know that feeling. Two of the different definitions of asexuality look at whether: you experience little/no sexual attraction you experience little/no desire for partnered sex You know your own feelings best to decide whether these definitions are applicable. Also: some people (demisexuals) don't experience sexual attraction/desire for a partner until a deep emotional bond has been formed. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Blanche Posted May 26, 2022 Author Share Posted May 26, 2022 Thank you very much for the answers! Quote Link to post Share on other sites
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