persephobee Posted May 17, 2022 Share Posted May 17, 2022 Hi, so recently I've admitted to a group of people that I find the idea of sex enjoyable, but not the act itself. Like, I enjoy reading about it, watching porn, I get the horny from time to time. But the concept of having sex just makes me... uncomfortable. It's a recent development, and I hope I can find an answer to this Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Sarah-Sylvia Posted May 17, 2022 Share Posted May 17, 2022 @persephobee Hi Being uncomfortable with sex could be from different reasons, so would probably take to follow whatever feels good to you and see how that ends up, that is continue to learn what you like and don't like (and makes comfortable or uncomfortable). Feel free to share more. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
persephobee Posted May 17, 2022 Author Share Posted May 17, 2022 4 hours ago, Sarah-Sylvia said: @persephobee Hi Being uncomfortable with sex could be from different reasons, so would probably take to follow whatever feels good to you and see how that ends up, that is continue to learn what you like and don't like (and makes comfortable or uncomfortable). Feel free to share more. I don't want to is test anything. Sex doesn't appeal to me in real life, but it also makes me uncomfortable. 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Sarah-Sylvia Posted May 17, 2022 Share Posted May 17, 2022 Just now, persephobee said: I don't want to is test anything. Sex doesn't appeal to me in real life, but it also makes me uncomfortable. Quite possible you could be on the asexual spectrum of some kind, yeah. If you never feel drawn to sexuality with real people then that's pretty much asexuality. Most important is to be true to yourself, however it goes. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
TormentDubz Posted May 17, 2022 Share Posted May 17, 2022 Sounds like aegosexual 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
steel_quill Posted May 18, 2022 Share Posted May 18, 2022 Hi, @persephobee, welcome. Two of the different definitions of asexuality are: experiences little/no sexual attraction has little/no desire for partnered sex Whether these definitions (among others) apply, you know yourself the best to decide. 7 hours ago, persephobee said: so recently I've admitted to a group of people that I find the idea of sex enjoyable, [...]. Like, I enjoy reading about it, watching porn [...] This describes one's attitude toward sex. One's sexuality is determined by one's own feelings around attraction/desire and whether this attraction/desire is directed toward another person/other people. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
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