MOcean Posted May 4, 2022 Share Posted May 4, 2022 Umm that a great question haha I always ask these kind of questions to myself Today I’m gonna think about my sexuality, cause I always confuse myself My biological sex is a female, but I defined myself as a non-binary Cause I think that sometime I’m a girl and sometime boy, but some time I don’t even know it haha And the sexuality It change a lots of time At first I think I’m a heterosexual and turn into bisexual, pansexual then now is asexual Actually, I’m thinking am I an asexual or not Cause I will do like any things that heterosexual will do I watch porn, I have sexual fantasies. Just some things that people will do. I can love people, I love all the sexuality I love hug, holding hands and maybe kiss But I don’t wanna have sex with people, I can imagine it, but real? Nah, no thanks. So I’m curious about am I an asexual or something else? thank you everyone that see this pose or help me to find it out 2 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Boondocks Paradox Posted May 4, 2022 Share Posted May 4, 2022 Hello! If you do not experience sexual attraction (the emotional response where someone finds another sexually appealing, and often results in a desire for sexual contact with the person), then you might be an asexual. Your experience of you not wanting to have sex with others is one sign of asexuality. Some asexuals have libido or sex drive but still lack sexual attraction; and that's valid. You may still experience romantic desire for others. Romantic attraction can be either be heteroromantic, homoromantic, biromantic, panromantic, or aromantic. You may want read this overview to learn more and feel free to ask questions. One last note: if you find "asexual" useful to describe yourself, you can use it for as long as it makes sense to do so. 😊 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
ICantThinkOfAUsernameToo Posted May 4, 2022 Share Posted May 4, 2022 56 minutes ago, MOcean said: And the sexuality It change a lots of time At first I think I’m a heterosexual and turn into bisexual, pansexual then now is asexual I am going to offer you a different perspective. For me it's really not important to pinpoint exactly what I am. I currently identify as a heteroromantic fraysexual and even this label doesn't fully satisfy what I think I am. I mean I can probably do more research to narrow it down but to me it's really not important. I think the greatest thing I realized once I discovered asexuality is that there is more than one reality and each reality is valid. I realize now that there is no box. My problem for the longest time was fitting into this box(what a relief right?) But if you really like getting to the nitty gritty of things (which is understandable) there is alot of info here to help you get started. Goodluck Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Karst Posted May 12, 2022 Share Posted May 12, 2022 What you were saying about your feelings of gender sounds similar to what I've heard a genderfluid friend describe. Maybe look into that label? Quote Link to post Share on other sites
gndrqrd Posted May 12, 2022 Share Posted May 12, 2022 For the gender thing, what I always tell people is to investigate what it actually means to be a boy, a girl, or neither, and how you fit into that in the grand scheme of things. So, for instance, what does it mean to feel like a girl? Does it mean to feel feminine, even though there are masculine women and feminine men? Is it more abstract? If so, what defines womanhood, in your opinion? These kinds of questions are really enlightening and useful to consider. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Reindeer Posted May 18, 2022 Share Posted May 18, 2022 On 5/4/2022 at 12:10 AM, MOcean said: Umm that a great question haha I always ask these kind of questions to myself Today I’m gonna think about my sexuality, cause I always confuse myself My biological sex is a female, but I defined myself as a non-binary Cause I think that sometime I’m a girl and sometime boy, but some time I don’t even know it haha And the sexuality It change a lots of time At first I think I’m a heterosexual and turn into bisexual, pansexual then now is asexual Actually, I’m thinking am I an asexual or not Cause I will do like any things that heterosexual will do I watch porn, I have sexual fantasies. Just some things that people will do. I can love people, I love all the sexuality I love hug, holding hands and maybe kiss But I don’t wanna have sex with people, I can imagine it, but real? Nah, no thanks. So I’m curious about am I an asexual or something else? thank you everyone that see this pose or help me to find it out You are a member on the Aven website. 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
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