mackat5 Posted July 10, 2007 Share Posted July 10, 2007 The old lady ain't dead as yet!! I still do notice the good looking men. To explain, a young man who used to live across the street from me with his Mother drove past my place this afternoon. He has grown up to be a VERY good looking young man. He was in grade school when they lived near me. Interesting thing is, he's good looking, but.... nothing more for me at least. BUT I do like to look!!! :D Link to post Share on other sites
Tanwen Posted July 10, 2007 Share Posted July 10, 2007 So, I'm not the only one then... Link to post Share on other sites
Loki Posted July 10, 2007 Share Posted July 10, 2007 I like to look too... to see how beautiful/handsome people can be Link to post Share on other sites
Elizabeth I Posted July 15, 2007 Share Posted July 15, 2007 This is one reason I have to wonder if I am, in fact, asexual. I really DO enjoy looking at, and spending time ...with men. The ones I am attracted to are usually very rogueish too. I always liked Paul McCartney, Colin Farrell, Craig Ferguson and Billy Connolly....all VERY sexual men. Maybe I'm just a raging Celtophile? Lizzie Link to post Share on other sites
Zanedia Posted July 16, 2007 Share Posted July 16, 2007 I like good-looking guys AND gals. And yes, I've noticed that I enjoy the company of good-looking people, too. *sigh* I just sounded so superficial just then. Link to post Share on other sites
Tanwen Posted July 26, 2007 Share Posted July 26, 2007 I like good-looking guys AND gals. And yes, I've noticed that I enjoy the company of good-looking people, too. *sigh* I just sounded so superficial just then. No, just human. It's part of the 'curse' the ancient Greeeks left us with...what is beautiful is necessarily good. The Celts, on the other hand believed that disfigurements were a result of being touched by the gods... Link to post Share on other sites
mackat5 Posted July 26, 2007 Author Share Posted July 26, 2007 I also like to stand next to the fellows that are 6'3" or more. After all, they're taller than me then!!!!! :lol: Somebody that I can actualy look up to! Link to post Share on other sites
xBlackxRainx Posted July 27, 2007 Share Posted July 27, 2007 It's weird with me, I acknowledge attractive people, particularly men, and then something clicks in my mind that I should stay away from them at all costs because they are dangerous....I act normal around them and treat them like any other human being, but I avoid letting them near, and don't even build the slightest trust with them... Link to post Share on other sites
osito Posted July 28, 2007 Share Posted July 28, 2007 It's weird with me, I acknowledge attractive people, particularly men, and then something clicks in my mind that I should stay away from them at all costs because they are dangerous....I act normal around them and treat them like any other human being, but I avoid letting them near, and don't even build the slightest trust with them... I can understand this. I tend not to trust beautiful people. They are often a bit full of themselves, having gotten by more on looks and less on merit than we ordinary folks, or so I think...and therefore have developed less character and learned fewer lessons, or so my stereotyping runs... And besides, they have in the past spurned my (albeit asexual) interest in them...(aha!). Which hurt. I cannot help being physically attracted (like in those studies they've done with babies) at the same time I feel wariness and sometimes anger rise up. They are dangerous...look how serious this thread suddenly got.:x That said, I have been graced with the opportunity to (really) be in the presence of Craig Ferguson for about fifteen minutes, as a guest on the LLS. He was charming!! Ah, there's my confessional for a Friday evening. carpe diem, pax vobiscum. osito Link to post Share on other sites
Tanwen Posted July 28, 2007 Share Posted July 28, 2007 I was surprised to learn he was one of the UK's leading comedians (albeit in 1994) as I haven't actually heard of him. Still, as my sons keep telling me, I'm a bit 'out of it' - that isn't true, I'm completely out of it! :lol: When I was younger and bemoaning the fact I hated my nose, I can remember my mother saying to me that I needed to develop a personality to compensate ( :shock: :shock: , mother, you were supposed to boost my confidence!). But I still look, I even flirt now. Being old fat and ugly, no-one is ever going to take me seriously so I can have fun! Link to post Share on other sites
Genetically_Dead Posted July 30, 2007 Share Posted July 30, 2007 Looks don't interest me in the least. I find most men to be uninteresting as the ones I seem to meet want to have a friendship with benefits. :( Link to post Share on other sites
mackat5 Posted July 31, 2007 Author Share Posted July 31, 2007 That's why gay men are such great friends!! I get the friendship, can sleep in the same house, and absolutely nothing other than friendship is ever expected!!! Plus, there are more than a few gay men who are VERY good looking! The best of both worlds for me! I can look, be friendly, and nothing more. Link to post Share on other sites
UnicornLady Posted June 7, 2008 Share Posted June 7, 2008 I'm an æsthete: I love beauty of all kinds. Beautiful people, beautiful art, whatever. I can love looking at someone beautiful without wanting to have sex with them. Link to post Share on other sites
jcortese Posted June 9, 2008 Share Posted June 9, 2008 *shrug* I like looking, too. From a distance, some people are nice to see. I still don't want them around me expecting a grope, though. Link to post Share on other sites
pyruvacy Posted June 9, 2008 Share Posted June 9, 2008 I like good-looking people as long as they don't look sexy :lol: Link to post Share on other sites
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