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cherhorowitz

So, it’s been a year since I started masturbating regularly, even though I’m a 24 yo female. I only did it because I was curious about arousal and sexual sensations, and I also thought that maybe if I started feeling all that my body would wake up and start feeling sexual attraction (spoiler: that didn’t happen). At first I did it with my hands. It only felt good for a few seconds, and then a feeling of discomfort would rise and I’d stop. Then I got a bunny vibrator and I’ve used it more times than I can count, but most times I can barely feel anything. Sometimes when I go weeks not using it, it’s a lot easier to become aroused and feel pleasure, but it only lasts for a bit. But after some time doing it or after 2/3 days even on the hardest vibration mode it does nothing to me. On the rare occasions when I feel pleasure for a longer time, it still doesn’t seem worth all the effort people make to have sex. And yes, I’ve tried watching porn, reading erotica, listening to music, fantasizing, emptying my head, different positions and using lube. And I still feel that discomfort after a while, which I think was supposed to be an orgasm because I feel my body contract. Can anyone relate? Did anyone also use to feel like this but then things got better?

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I cannot relate, but I do know orgasms are not normally painful. I wish I could be if more help!

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RobL2415

The first time I ever orgasmed I too confused it for pain. I thought something was physically wrong with me.

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cherhorowitz
On 4/30/2021 at 6:18 AM, Shoro said:

I cannot relate, but I do know orgasms are not normally painful. I wish I could be if more help!

It’s not pain, thankfully. But it’s not pleasure either. It’s like I’ve hit a limit of sensation that is not pleasurable anymore (although before that it wasn’t that pleasurable either). 

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cherhorowitz
On 4/30/2021 at 1:32 PM, RobL2415 said:

The first time I ever orgasmed I too confused it for pain. I thought something was physically wrong with me.

After that did it become good? Why do you think you confused it for pain?

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RobL2415
10 hours ago, cherhorowitz said:

After that did it become good? Why do you think you confused it for pain?

1. Yes

2. Because I was a naïve 12-year-old. I already went through growth and developed and knew what ejaculation was, but not how it felt. 

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