MarRister Posted April 13, 2021 Share Posted April 13, 2021 Uh I guess if I had to use labels I would be a heterosexual cis female. But that hardly means my sexuality or gender are 'boring' or has not been a struggle for me and I don't think that is a good way to think about things. The best label I can truly come up with is that I am me, and that is all that matters. Anyone who I deem needs to know more then that I will talk to them about it. 6 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Aiv Posted April 16, 2021 Share Posted April 16, 2021 I suppose I would normally say aroace if they knew what it meant or "I had never "liked"/felt attraction to anyone and probably never will" if they didn't. The longer version might be: Cis female; autochorissexual sex-averse celibate asexual; basically all the stuff for sexual orientation for romantic as well; demisensual and theoretically demi-homoalterous; questioning ficto-omniplatonic; feminine-and-adrogynous-people-aesthetic; and otherwise, homo oriented aroace who does not experience limerence [Since that is the case (concerning limerence) it is a bit tricky at the moment to work out if I am or am not fictoplatonic. The characters I actually want to be friends with, if I do in fact want to be friends with them, do not stick out as much as the characters I am crazy about for (I have now concluded) unrelated reasons and realistically would probably not get along well with (and they're often antiheroes and villains), because it is not as "dramatic" a feeling and because amatonormativity says it should be "dramatic" and there you have it. As you can see I'm leaning more towards "I am" today] 2 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
weird elf Posted April 22, 2021 Share Posted April 22, 2021 I usually go with asexual biromantic, but there is rather more to it I guess. For one thing, I always preferred women; for another, at this point, I would only consider getting into a relationship again if it was with a woman. So ... historically proven biromantic, currently homoromantic? Late bloomer lesbian? Not even sure. Also "bambi lesbian" seems to kind of fit, but as a grown-ar$e woman going on 40 I feel kind of weird calling myself anything "bambi". 4 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Red Lion Posted April 22, 2021 Share Posted April 22, 2021 I usually say non-binary asexual I don't usually label my romantic orientation but if I had to it would be gray-panromantic So my specific label I don't really tell anyone would be Agender gray-panromantic sex-repulsed asexual 2 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
beankat Posted April 22, 2021 Share Posted April 22, 2021 I am a cis female, still questioning and since I’ve only been in one long term relationship that began when we were 14, my reference points are basically zero. So far I’m pretty comfortable with biromantic sex indifferent (grey) asexual 💜🖤🤍 2 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
stardust628 Posted April 23, 2021 Share Posted April 23, 2021 AFAB gendervoid, asexual, aegosexual, acevague, demi-omni-romantic, sex-neutral 2 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Zimmermikeee Posted April 24, 2021 Share Posted April 24, 2021 Romance-ambivalent, sex-ambivalent Panaesthetic, demi-bialterous, demi-pansensual / hypersensual Male-oriented biromantic, demi-bisexual (prolly in between demi and gray) Agender-aligned girlflux 2 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
godace Posted April 24, 2021 Share Posted April 24, 2021 androgynous woman, romantically attracted to women (that's for sure) and maybe other genders (I have no clue, it's been 8 months since i last gathered with people, my past love moments feel like they belong to someone else's memory). strictly asexual, but sex-neutral - well, not really. In fact I say that I'm sex neutral because I assume that i've only ever been with weird people and one day i'll find sex that doesn't make me disjunct : but every time i try, i dissociate so hard i'm unable to speak properly for days. maybe there is no less-weird person to make me comfortable, and i'm just sex-averse ? idk. it really turns me off, physically, yknow like a robot, i just stop functioning 3 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
VeryAsexyIndeed Posted April 24, 2021 Share Posted April 24, 2021 Trans nonbinary gray-polyflux (I have at least three demigenders (none of them are 100%) that all fluctuate in intensity so gray poly flux) Asexual (sex indifferent or sex averse), Demi/gray-romantic (idk if I’m demi, gray or allo yet, but I don’t think allo) Lesbian/neptunic, pansensual, biaesthetic (women and enbys), heteroalterous (Idk I’ve only ever gotten these squishes on guys, if they even were squishes, could be that I just want to look like them) 3 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Killua Posted April 25, 2021 Share Posted April 25, 2021 Repulsed ace Biaesthetic Heterosensual Fictoromantic (or WTFromantic?) Romance favorable Biplatonic Cis female 2 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Purple Wanderer Posted April 25, 2021 Share Posted April 25, 2021 I identify as being Mostly harmless and occaisionally witty 6 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
weird elf Posted April 25, 2021 Share Posted April 25, 2021 Epiphany time, folks! I stumbled across the celestial gender system and what do you know, there's a gender that kind of actually resonates with me? Wicked. So I might or might not go with lunettian outside this thread. Soooo the current WIP looks to be lunettian asexual gynoromantic ... 3 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
The Maelstrom Posted April 25, 2021 Share Posted April 25, 2021 Oh boy.... Aromantic, kind of on and off romance repulsed, asexual/anegosexual, sex-positive and personally sex indifferent, bicurious, experiencing mostly aesthetic and platonic attraction. Bi-aesthetic? Currently questioning if I'm some sort of nonbinary, too. 2 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
leeluvssquids Posted April 25, 2021 Share Posted April 25, 2021 I'd probably normally say im aro/ace cis female, but the long version would be something like gray-fictoromantic/sexual / (is romance positive/neutral a thing?) aromantic, sex positive/neutral asexual cis female it's a mouth full and pretty jumbled and confusing haha 2 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
anzu2snow Posted April 26, 2021 Share Posted April 26, 2021 Normally I just say aro ace and agender. More into it, and I’m: a pan oriented aro ace, sex-repulsed, romance-repulsed (although not as much as the sex one), sex-positive, sex-curious (yeah I’m weird this way), romance-positive, queerpanplatonic, aesthetically attracted toward men or masculine people (would that be androaesthetic?), no idea about my sensual attraction, monogamous for a qpr, trans, non-binary, agender, neither leaning feminine nor masculine, possible gender expression I’ll strive for in the future is a mixture of things (not sure if it’ll be considered androgynous), 2nd generation trans person (my parent is a trans woman), and afab. 2 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Crystal dragon Posted April 26, 2021 Share Posted April 26, 2021 (edited) Grey-Autochroissexual, Sex-Averse, questioning panromantic, questioning my gender. Edited April 26, 2021 by Crystal dragon Forgot something oops 2 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Aiv Posted April 26, 2021 Share Posted April 26, 2021 On 4/16/2021 at 12:33 PM, an~imperial~votress said: I suppose I would normally say aroace if they knew what it meant or "I had never "liked"/felt attraction to anyone and probably never will" if they didn't. The longer version might be: Cis female; autochorissexual sex-averse celibate asexual; basically all the stuff for sexual orientation for romantic as well; demisensual and theoretically demi-homoalterous; questioning ficto-omniplatonic; feminine-and-adrogynous-people-aesthetic; and otherwise, homo oriented aroace who does not experience limerence It randomly occurred to me today that were I inclined, I could lay claim to a total of eight pride flags. That I know of. 3 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Janus the Fox Posted April 27, 2021 Share Posted April 27, 2021 11 hours ago, an~imperial~votress said: It randomly occurred to me today that were I inclined, I could lay claim to a total of eight pride flags. That I know of. Same, for me at least 5 of these would be for Gender. 3 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Cyberspace2001 Posted April 27, 2021 Share Posted April 27, 2021 Demi-heteromantic asexual male In other words, a dude who only feels attraction after getting close with a girl without any sexual feelings whatsoever for her. 2 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
alemaster Posted April 30, 2021 Share Posted April 30, 2021 I'm a mostly straight dude who just ... doesn't enjoy sex and related things. 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Heaven in hiding Posted May 2, 2021 Share Posted May 2, 2021 (edited) I want to try it too Asexual Anegosexual Hetero romantic Bi-curious Sex-repulsed Have a high (higher than sky) libido People say we have too many labels and sub labels and that we all don't need them. But this labels help me understand myself. I don't use them in my real life I just want to know who I am Edited May 2, 2021 by Heaven in hiding 2 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Terra Branford Posted May 2, 2021 Share Posted May 2, 2021 Cis Hetero-Grayromantic Graysexual borderline aro ace woman. 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Sally Posted May 3, 2021 Share Posted May 3, 2021 Female heteroasexual. 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
daveb Posted May 3, 2021 Share Posted May 3, 2021 As specifically as possible? Me. That's as specific as it gets, in my opinion. Details, labels? That's another story. 3 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
cshruti87 Posted May 3, 2021 Share Posted May 3, 2021 Asexual biromantic female 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Sarah-Sylvia Posted May 3, 2021 Share Posted May 3, 2021 I already put a lot into my orientation, but there's more I could put in my gender identity.. so let's see how long I can make it Bi-romantic and sensual graysexual (or gray-ace) quasi-non-binary female with some (multi-gendered) fluidity. My sexual attitudes are complicated and kind of tied to how I feel, so kinda hard to put something there, and I don't know if I've seen much around aesthetic, but I am homo-aesthetic, if that's a thing XD. That's to say I'm not visually attracted to guys for the most part. 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Perin Posted May 3, 2021 Share Posted May 3, 2021 Aroace Neutrois non binary Slightly feminine (to help not be male) hetero (if asked to make a choice) sex-repulsed 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
harmonic turquoise Posted May 3, 2021 Share Posted May 3, 2021 I think I wanna try myself too. But I don't know myself very well yet, because I always come to AVEN for fun. I'm sure I'm asexual. I don't know how to classify myself any more. I am an asexual wonderland, a nature-loving recluse, a visitor from another planet but I am definitely a human being. I would like to find my identity, but for now I feel like dancing and drawing, listening to my favorite music. 3 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Posted May 3, 2021 Share Posted May 3, 2021 3 minutes ago, Harmonic turquoise said: I think I wanna try myself too. But I don't know myself very well yet, because I always come to AVEN for fun. I'm sure I'm asexual. I don't know how to classify myself any more. I am an asexual wonderland, a nature-loving recluse, a visitor from another planet but I am definitely a human being. I would like to find my identity, but for now I feel like dancing and drawing, listening to my favorite music. Very good, no point in trying to force anything. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Aiv Posted May 8, 2021 Share Posted May 8, 2021 Darn it, now I'm also questioning grey platonic and plato-favorable. It never ends. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
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