alyssnake Posted March 7, 2021 Share Posted March 7, 2021 Hi, I'm alyssa and I'm 21 years old. Lately I've been seeing some things/posts surrounding asexuality and as I look at my experiences and things I feel, it's seeming more and more like a sign? As I've been looking deeper into how people describe it and what it's all about, idk if I'm right but it feels like it. I've never really been one to have overly sexual feelings or do things like friends of mine have. I've had some very awkward sexual experiences with one person in my life and it's stuck with me ever since honestly. I think I lean more gray ? Maybe? Idk all I know is that finding this forum and signing up I felt like crying like maybe I wasn't just some weirdo lmao idk (it's 5:30am) Link to post Share on other sites
harmonic turquoise Posted March 7, 2021 Share Posted March 7, 2021 I don't have enough knowledge to give you some advice, but I welcome you from the heart. Someone will surely make nice suggestions to you. Have some welcome cakes. Link to post Share on other sites
Faleeria Posted March 7, 2021 Share Posted March 7, 2021 Welcome to AVEN! You're definitely not a weirdo or anything. Whatever it will be that you will identify as later on, your feelings are completely valid. Take your time with getting to know yourself better! Have some cake first (let's just ignore that this is a "wedding cake" - it looks absolutely stunning): https://vintageandcake.blogspot.com/2011/08/victoria-sponge-wedding-cake.html Link to post Share on other sites
alyssnake Posted March 7, 2021 Author Share Posted March 7, 2021 5 hours ago, Harmonic turquoise said: I don't have enough knowledge to give you some advice, but I welcome you from the heart. Someone will surely make nice suggestions to you. Have some welcome cakes. Thank u ❤️ Link to post Share on other sites
alyssnake Posted March 7, 2021 Author Share Posted March 7, 2021 4 hours ago, Faleeria said: Welcome to AVEN! You're definitely not a weirdo or anything. Whatever it will be that you will identify as later on, your feelings are completely valid. Take your time with getting to know yourself better! Have some cake first (let's just ignore that this is a "wedding cake" - it looks absolutely stunning): https://vintageandcake.blogspot.com/2011/08/victoria-sponge-wedding-cake.html Thank u so much ❤️ Link to post Share on other sites
TheaTheMoon Posted March 7, 2021 Share Posted March 7, 2021 9 hours ago, alyssnake said: Hi, I'm alyssa and I'm 21 years old. Lately I've been seeing some things/posts surrounding asexuality and as I look at my experiences and things I feel, it's seeming more and more like a sign? As I've been looking deeper into how people describe it and what it's all about, idk if I'm right but it feels like it. I've never really been one to have overly sexual feelings or do things like friends of mine have. I've had some very awkward sexual experiences with one person in my life and it's stuck with me ever since honestly. I think I lean more gray ? Maybe? Idk all I know is that finding this forum and signing up I felt like crying like maybe I wasn't just some weirdo lmao idk (it's 5:30am) Hey, Alyssa! I'm new here too and also trying to figure myself out... I don't think you're weird at all for not knowing. We've got our whole lives to get to know ourselves, this is just the start! Have some cake!! P.S. I also cried last night when I joined haha Link to post Share on other sites
Lichley Posted March 7, 2021 Share Posted March 7, 2021 Welcome! If you have any questions, or need advice and stuff, feel free to ask us. We’re more than happy to help you figure everything out Link to post Share on other sites
alyssnake Posted March 8, 2021 Author Share Posted March 8, 2021 10 hours ago, TheaTheMoon said: Hey, Alyssa! I'm new here too and also trying to figure myself out... I don't think you're weird at all for not knowing. We've got our whole lives to get to know ourselves, this is just the start! Have some cake!! P.S. I also cried last night when I joined haha 💞💞💞 You're so right, thank you !! I guess crying means something lol 🍰🍰🍰 Link to post Share on other sites
alyssnake Posted March 8, 2021 Author Share Posted March 8, 2021 8 hours ago, Lichley said: Welcome! If you have any questions, or need advice and stuff, feel free to ask us. We’re more than happy to help you figure everything out I appreciate this so much 🥺 Everyone seems so welcoming and nice on here Link to post Share on other sites
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