R_1 Posted February 15, 2021 Share Posted February 15, 2021 This is a thread to talk about whether you think you are a great partner. Imagine dating yourself. Link to post Share on other sites
Iam9man Posted February 15, 2021 Share Posted February 15, 2021 As to whether I’d date myself, no. I’m way out of my league 😎 PS Serious answer: No, too many annoying habits 🤣 Link to post Share on other sites
Oberon Jasper Posted February 15, 2021 Share Posted February 15, 2021 No... Too self deprecating and trash at communication. Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Posted February 15, 2021 Share Posted February 15, 2021 I dont know honestly but I would not be a great partner for me otherwise I would be a much happier person. Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Posted February 15, 2021 Share Posted February 15, 2021 So that’s my only option now? Holy schnikes. Link to post Share on other sites
Grey-Ace Ventura Posted February 15, 2021 Share Posted February 15, 2021 Absolutely! I'm only upset I haven't actually found another me to date 😎 Link to post Share on other sites
maddieflower Posted February 15, 2021 Share Posted February 15, 2021 yes, but i'm afraid i would unintentionally hurt my partner because i don't like skinship so much:( Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Posted February 15, 2021 Share Posted February 15, 2021 Nothing here. Link to post Share on other sites
Morays Posted February 15, 2021 Share Posted February 15, 2021 Hm... these are really two separate questions. I do think I could be a good romantic partner for the right person! However, I don't think dating someone exactly like me would go well, because our fears and insecurities and foibles would line up too precisely. It'd be... self-amplifying, and probably destructive. Almost all of the really successful relationships I've seen involve people complementing one another, with strengths and weaknesses that balance one another out, and areas of overlap and divergence that give them each room to grow and learn from one another. Because of that, I answered "other." Link to post Share on other sites
Raindrops Posted February 15, 2021 Share Posted February 15, 2021 I have a feeling I'd utterly hate myself, if I met me. 😆 Link to post Share on other sites
harmonic turquoise Posted February 15, 2021 Share Posted February 15, 2021 I like to spend time quietly alone, but what if I date myself? I wish I had been twins. But when I think of me as a romantic partner, that's not the case at all. Link to post Share on other sites
Purple Red Panda Posted February 15, 2021 Share Posted February 15, 2021 I'm not romantically attracted to myself. Link to post Share on other sites
The Abhorred Posted February 15, 2021 Share Posted February 15, 2021 Interesting question. I don't say yes to date proposals, I would have refuse from the start. If I could be a good romantic partner? Possibly yes, but no one will ever know. Link to post Share on other sites
FJO8 Posted February 15, 2021 Share Posted February 15, 2021 I see two different questions here: yes, I consider myself a good romantic partner no, not for myself. I would not date myself, because that would be a very unstable relationship. I can't stand it already when I see traits of myself in other people, how much worse when all of them are combined. On the other hand, I would know myself quite well I think and if our mood-swing would be anticyclic that might even work for some time. Link to post Share on other sites
Artemis42 Posted February 15, 2021 Share Posted February 15, 2021 Well, as for if I’d be a good partner, I’d certainly try my best. I can see myself being quite affectionate and supportive to my future partner, and I think I’m fairly good at communication. As for whether I would date myself ... No? First of all I’m not even the right gender for myself, and second dating someone EXACTLY like me would be extremely boring. Of course there are certain fundamental things I would like to have in common with a future partner, but we still need to be different people so we can complement each other and find each other interesting lol. Link to post Share on other sites
Phalena Posted February 15, 2021 Share Posted February 15, 2021 I would date myself for fun but never ever start a relationship. Link to post Share on other sites
Gloomy Posted February 15, 2021 Share Posted February 15, 2021 Probably not, I’m too crazy and annoying. Link to post Share on other sites
Blue eyes white dragon Posted February 15, 2021 Share Posted February 15, 2021 I mean I'll be a good partner but I won't date myself since I'm not my type lol Link to post Share on other sites
hexingkinase Posted February 15, 2021 Share Posted February 15, 2021 Two questions here. First, do I see myself as a good romantic partner? Not now. There are things I need to work on before I could be a good partner to anyone (including myself) otherwise it would be unfair to the other person. With some self-improvement, I could be. Would I date myself? Well I had a pretty nice date with myself this weekend; I think there's potential! But an actual carbon copy of myself as a romantic partner... no. I'd like some similarities but I'd pair better with someone who's, well, not me. Link to post Share on other sites
Ceebs Posted February 15, 2021 Share Posted February 15, 2021 2 hours ago, SocialMorays said: Hm... these are really two separate questions. That was my thought... Because hell no, I absolutely would not date myself. No bloody way. I think I'm an okay partner, though. Not perfect, I struggle with a lot of life stuff so my existence is always a little complicated, but I try my best in that realm of things. Probably people's partners are better at answering that than they are at answering themselves, though. Link to post Share on other sites
zoeretro Posted February 15, 2021 Share Posted February 15, 2021 oh hell yeah it might seem narcissistic but no 😂 Im just too romantic Link to post Share on other sites
Libellule Posted February 15, 2021 Share Posted February 15, 2021 I don't think I'm a good girlfriend, no. To answer the question of the thread: I wouldn't date myself, or if I did I doubt it'd last long. I need someone who balances me out. Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Posted February 15, 2021 Share Posted February 15, 2021 4 hours ago, SocialMorays said: Hm... these are really two separate questions. I do think I could be a good romantic partner for the right person! However, I don't think dating someone exactly like me would go well, because our fears and insecurities and foibles would line up too precisely. It'd be... self-amplifying, and probably destructive. Almost all of the really successful relationships I've seen involve people complementing one another, with strengths and weaknesses that balance one another out, and areas of overlap and divergence that give them each room to grow and learn from one another. ^^^ Link to post Share on other sites
uniQChick Posted February 15, 2021 Share Posted February 15, 2021 There is no narcissistic love here... Of course I would date someone like me! 💘 Link to post Share on other sites
fooledbysecrecy Posted February 15, 2021 Share Posted February 15, 2021 lol no. i mean my interests are great of course so at least there'd be something to talk about but as a person i'm not worth it. Link to post Share on other sites
iff Posted February 15, 2021 Share Posted February 15, 2021 7 hours ago, SocialMorays said: these are really two separate questions. Although my answer to both is No Link to post Share on other sites
kenny. Posted February 15, 2021 Share Posted February 15, 2021 in answering the original question: no, i don't see myself as a good romantic partner. but in all honesty sometimes i feel like i'm dating myself lmao i need to find someone besides me to keep myself company Link to post Share on other sites
Grumpy Alien Posted February 15, 2021 Share Posted February 15, 2021 I hate everything about myself so no thank you please Link to post Share on other sites
BZA Posted February 15, 2021 Share Posted February 15, 2021 No. Too weird. And obnoxious at times. Link to post Share on other sites
alto Posted February 15, 2021 Share Posted February 15, 2021 I would seriously consider it. Link to post Share on other sites
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