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Hey. I'm a 20 year old girl and I was never in a relathionship. As a heteroromantic ace I'm scared it will be hard to find somebody. So could all the boys/men who see this and are ace or don't care about sex write something to give me some hope pls. :)

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Twisted Tempest

We are most certainly around! Keep holding on, and keep looking! You'll find who you're looking for. :)

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Janus the Fox

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Mackenzie Malik

Im an asexual dude and I can promise there are loads of us!!

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Horse Ham Radio

I'm male-bodied and yeah there are many people like that in the world (which I think is what you are asking? Or is the question specifically about gender?)

 

If you are asking about genders, I have had a quick search and found this thread for gender ID's: https://www.asexuality.org/en/topic/197608-gender , which shows about 1 in 5 respondents identified as male.

 

From IRL experience with the ace community, I would say it was probably closer to 1 in 3 or so people were male-identifying in the offline scenes.

 

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I'm an old fart, but I have heard of couples meeting through this site and Ace-book, there's plenty of asexual guys all over the place, don't be put off, there's also dating sites specifically for asexual people, I have never been interested in trying dating sites due to my lifestyle, there are others who feel the same as you and would like to be in a relationship.

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3 hours ago, Twisted Tempest said:

We are most certainly around! Keep holding on, and keep looking! You'll find who you're looking for. :)

Aww. That's so sweet! Thanks ❤️

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2 hours ago, Jay Connor said:

Im an asexual dude and I can promise there are loads of us!!

I thought you were rare🥺

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a little annihilation

I have a friend who's male and ace so ik they exist

keep up hope ❤️

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Twisted Tempest
19 minutes ago, Claudia12 said:

Aww. That's so sweet! Thanks ❤️

Wishing you the best of luck! 😊

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I can not tell you how good that is to know! I would say I am demisexual and demiromantic but I might be  heteroromantic, as I have only ever had crushes on guys so far. Just reading this thread quiets a lot of the anxiety in my about finding a partner! 

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Little late to the party but just wanted to add, cause I think this may be relevant for you. 

 

I am a hetroromantic asexual male. The reason I now identify this way, is because of a dating app. 

I was on a dating app around 3 months ago (before I knew I was ace) and I saw a profile. Part of the bio said that she was asexual. I didn't really know what that meant at the time, but the rest of her profile seemed cool so I liked it, and we matched. 

 

We started talking, and after our first couple meet ups, I decided to research asexuality in order to better understand her. As I was doing my research I found that I heavily related with it, and I realized I was asexual. After I realized I told her during our next hang out, and we have been together since then. 

 

Keep looking, we're out there, even if we don't know it yet!

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12 hours ago, Twisted Tempest said:

Wishing you the best of luck! 😊

Thank you!!🥰

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3 hours ago, krusk said:

Little late to the party but just wanted to add, cause I think this may be relevant for you. 

 

I am a hetroromantic asexual male. The reason I now identify this way, is because of a dating app. 

I was on a dating app around 3 months ago (before I knew I was ace) and I saw a profile. Part of the bio said that she was asexual. I didn't really know what that meant at the time, but the rest of her profile seemed cool so I liked it, and we matched. 

 

We started talking, and after our first couple meet ups, I decided to research asexuality in order to better understand her. As I was doing my research I found that I heavily related with it, and I realized I was asexual. After I realized I told her during our next hang out, and we have been together since then. 

 

Keep looking, we're out there, even if we don't know it yet!

What a cute story! Happy for you and thanks for sharing :)

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I'm ace dude and also afraid that it's going to be difficult to find somebody I will be a good match with, especially since I'm over 30. So I can relate, for what it's worth...

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6 hours ago, Bradford said:

I'm ace dude and also afraid that it's going to be difficult to find somebody I will be a good match with, especially since I'm over 30. So I can relate, for what it's worth...

Nice to know there are 30+ ace guys around :)

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8 hours ago, Bradford said:

I'm ace dude and also afraid that it's going to be difficult to find somebody I will be a good match with, especially since I'm over 30. So I can relate, for what it's worth...

Big same except nearing 30 instead... :ph34r:

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I'm a hetero ace male 40+ myself, we're out here. In terms of my own observation hanging out with my local Ace Meetup, I would agree that there are less men than women but we exist!

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I'm 46 hetero Ace.  We exist and I have also been worried I may never find someone.  I'm such a huge introvert that is doesn't bother me all that much but I know most people don't think like me.  Good luck in your search.  

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Squirrel Combat

It's true, there aren't very many of us (1:13 ratio I think--don't quote me there), but we do exist, here to share a male perspective on what it's like to be Ace, among other everyday things.

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Ace Of Dragons

I just learned what an asexual was last year at the age of 44, and everything just clicked that is me. I am a male heteroromantic asexual and I do exist, at lest the last time I checked I did. I believe that I would only be able to get in a romantic relationship with a girl(in me age group), someone as loyal to me as I am to them, and obsoletely no sex(unless we want a kid, this is the only reason). I do not care if she is het, bi, or pan.

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On 1/23/2021 at 1:58 PM, Bradford said:

I'm ace dude and also afraid that it's going to be difficult to find somebody I will be a good match with, especially since I'm over 30. So I can relate, for what it's worth...

Well hello there, are you in the UK? I'm single 😂😂😂

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WarRocketAjax

We're out there. It's definitely harder to meet people especially because of the virus but I have hope I'll find someone.

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We exist! 🎉🎉

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InfjAceGirl
On 2/28/2021 at 2:57 AM, Eff said:

I'm so worried about this too... male aces are so far and few, even harder to find Muslim aces 😔

I'm sure there are Muslim aces! Maybe it will take longer to find him but I believe it's possible! Good luck, dear ❤️

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