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Sensual, Aesthetical or Sexual Attraction?


Taemi

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I'm still trying to find myself and label myself properly. I know it isn't easy process but if I don't have everything in my life categorized I feel anxious because of my OCD. I think I'm somewehre in the ace spectrum, but I'm not sure where. I'm sure I don't want to have sex or to be involved in sexual activities. That sounds like ace. But asexuals do not feel sexual attraction. I'm stuck in thinking I do feel sexual attraction in some way, but just don't want to have sex. I can feel romantic attraction and I can feel romantic feelings towards someone. At the same time I can find this person attractive and sex-appeling to me. Which I used to consider as sexual attraction. I like how that person looks like - from face to body features. I can be physically turned on by looking on that person and fantasizing about how he would look like naked. But not in a way I would want to have sex with him. Just kind of appreciation of beautiful body and appearence. Should I call it strong aesthetical attraction? Because this feelings lead me to sensual attraction - I want to kiss or cuddle him, but again not to have sex.

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Yes, for me this sounds like aesthetic and sensual attraction. As long as it doesn't involve that innate desire to connect with them sexually, I consider it's not sexual attraction, but this is just my opinion.

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Sarah-Sylvia

If it doesn't lead you to wanting sexual pleasure with them, then it's probably just sensual ;)
It's funny how aesthetic and sensual attraction can mingle together.

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Anthracite_Impreza

If it doesn't lead to a desire for sex, why call it sexual? It's like, if it isn't a feeling of needing to eat you wouldn't call it hunger, would you?

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