HandsOffMyCoffee Posted November 30, 2020 Share Posted November 30, 2020 Hi. I am a 17-year-old girl and this is my first time on this site. Recently I’ve been questioning things about myself, and part of that was my feelings about sex. I don’t know if I don’t want it or if I’m just terrified of it. I know I’d be very much interested in non-sexual forms of intimacy, but anything past that I get uncomfortable with. I think part of it is because I’m afraid of the pain that could come with it, but I just don’t know for certain. I think I mostly came here because I wanted answers or at least to know there are other people out there who also don’t know their stance on sex. Thank you for reading, and I hope everyone here has a wonderful day. Link to post Share on other sites
rainbowocollie Posted November 30, 2020 Share Posted November 30, 2020 Hi! You're at the right place, this site has tons of resources and knowledgeable people. I consider myself demisexual, and am pretty well set on that......that said, I'm not 100% sure how I feel about sex either. It kinda feels like the only way to know for sure would be to be in a relationship and see how I feel then, but....I'm on the aromantic spectrum, so I don't have any desire to try a relationship. lol Link to post Share on other sites
HandsOffMyCoffee Posted November 30, 2020 Author Share Posted November 30, 2020 It’s nice to meet other people who have similar feelings ❤️ Link to post Share on other sites
everywhere and nowhere Posted November 30, 2020 Share Posted November 30, 2020 We have a tradition here to welcome newbies with virtual cake, so here's some coffee cake for you: Link to post Share on other sites
Jayfeather Posted November 30, 2020 Share Posted November 30, 2020 Hi, I feel a similar way. Im confused about the "relationship" with sex lol. Im scared of it, at the same time Im cringing over it. I dont want a relationship tho, and Im 15. Link to post Share on other sites
HandsOffMyCoffee Posted November 30, 2020 Author Share Posted November 30, 2020 Thanks for the cake! It’s really nice to meet new people! Link to post Share on other sites
Lichley Posted December 1, 2020 Share Posted December 1, 2020 Welcome! Cake in a mug to go with your coffee in a cup Link to post Share on other sites
HandsOffMyCoffee Posted December 4, 2020 Author Share Posted December 4, 2020 AAHH I LOVE IT Link to post Share on other sites
Steel13 Posted December 4, 2020 Share Posted December 4, 2020 Welcome! I hope AVEN helps you figure things out! Link to post Share on other sites
Blue eyes white dragon Posted December 4, 2020 Share Posted December 4, 2020 Welcome! I'm new here too! I felt similar things before realizing I was asexual. I wish you luck on your journey! Link to post Share on other sites
HandsOffMyCoffee Posted December 4, 2020 Author Share Posted December 4, 2020 Thank you all! Link to post Share on other sites
NickyTannock Posted January 3, 2021 Share Posted January 3, 2021 A very belated welcome to AVEN! And Happy New Year! It's a tradition here to welcome new members by offering cake, and even though I'm so very late welcoming you, here's a "Sammie the Shih Tzu" cake, https://cakesdecor.com/cakes/246373-sammie-the-shih-tzu Link to post Share on other sites
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