Worrywart Posted September 24, 2020 Share Posted September 24, 2020 Hi so I don’t mind talking about sex but I definitely don’t ever want to do it. So what I’m confused about is sometimes my body will react weird to things so I’m guessing a libido but I’m not sure but anyways when my body does weird stuff my mind mentally hates sex and never wants to do it no matter what. So am I still asexual? Say I enjoyed the feeling (which I don’t) but I don’t want to have sex ever am I still Asexual?? thank you in advance Link to post Share on other sites
Anthracite_Impreza Posted September 24, 2020 Share Posted September 24, 2020 If you have no desire for sex then yes, that would be asexuality. Link to post Share on other sites
Sarah-Sylvia Posted September 24, 2020 Share Posted September 24, 2020 It's actually more telling of being asexual if you have libido but still don't want sex. Why don't you want sex though? Link to post Share on other sites
Velvet Eden Posted September 24, 2020 Share Posted September 24, 2020 If you don't feel the desire of having sex with ANOTHER PERSON that most likely means you are asexual. What you are describing is pretty normal for alot of aces (for example: It is common for aces to feel the need to masturbate although they would not like to partake in that activity with another person, which makes them asexual.) Link to post Share on other sites
Worrywart Posted September 24, 2020 Author Share Posted September 24, 2020 10 hours ago, Anthracite_Impreza said: If you have no desire for sex then yes, that would be asexuality. Is desire wanting to do something? Link to post Share on other sites
Worrywart Posted September 24, 2020 Author Share Posted September 24, 2020 9 hours ago, Sarah-Sylvia said: It's actually more telling of being asexual if you have libido but still don't want sex. Why don't you want sex though? I don’t want sex because I just find it unnecessary unless it’s for reproduction and I think if I were in a situation where someone wanted to do that with me I’d be very uncomfortable. Link to post Share on other sites
Worrywart Posted September 24, 2020 Author Share Posted September 24, 2020 8 hours ago, Sora Lawlight said: If you don't feel the desire of having sex with ANOTHER PERSON that most likely means you are asexual. What you are describing is pretty normal for alot of aces (for example: It is common for aces to feel the need to masturbate although they would not like to partake in that activity with another person, which makes them asexual.) Can you still be asexual if you don’t want to have sex (have no desire for sex), don’t masturbate, and have a libido or don’t have a libido? Link to post Share on other sites
Sarah-Sylvia Posted September 24, 2020 Share Posted September 24, 2020 3 hours ago, Worrywart said: I don’t want sex because I just find it unnecessary unless it’s for reproduction and I think if I were in a situation where someone wanted to do that with me I’d be very uncomfortable. Ok fair enough, Sounds like an asexual response Link to post Share on other sites
Velvet Eden Posted September 25, 2020 Share Posted September 25, 2020 14 hours ago, Worrywart said: Can you still be asexual if you don’t want to have sex (have no desire for sex), don’t masturbate, and have a libido or don’t have a libido? As far as my knowledge goes, yes you can!! because the term asexual is a label for people who don't experience sexual attraction, and that's it. whether you masturbate, don't masturbate, or even have sex you are still asexual. There are three types of asexuals in this type of situation Sex Repulsed- asexual people who are disgusted by sex. more info here: https://lgbta.wikia.org/wiki/Sex-repulsed Sex Neutral- asexual people who don't feel any positive feelings about sex, but don't feel repulsed by it. More info here: https://lgbta.wikia.org/wiki/Sex-indifferent Sex Favorable- asexual people that feel positively about sex while not experiencing sexual attraction itself. More info here: https://lgbta.wikia.org/wiki/Sex-favorable I hope this helps!!! Link to post Share on other sites
Worrywart Posted September 25, 2020 Author Share Posted September 25, 2020 9 hours ago, Sora Lawlight said: As far as my knowledge goes, yes you can!! because the term asexual is a label for people who don't experience sexual attraction, and that's it. whether you masturbate, don't masturbate, or even have sex you are still asexual. There are three types of asexuals in this type of situation Sex Repulsed- asexual people who are disgusted by sex. more info here: https://lgbta.wikia.org/wiki/Sex-repulsed Sex Neutral- asexual people who don't feel any positive feelings about sex, but don't feel repulsed by it. More info here: https://lgbta.wikia.org/wiki/Sex-indifferent Sex Favorable- asexual people that feel positively about sex while not experiencing sexual attraction itself. More info here: https://lgbta.wikia.org/wiki/Sex-favorable I hope this helps!!! Thanks! Link to post Share on other sites
Dragonsandcake1 Posted September 26, 2020 Share Posted September 26, 2020 You could be sex-indifferent or sex-favorable. Like I am sex-indifferent, I'm fine with talking about it, and when reading, I'm fine with lemons, it's just another style of writing in my eyes. But I dont feel the urge or desire to have sex, making me asexual. Link to post Share on other sites
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