GlamRocker Posted May 29, 2020 Share Posted May 29, 2020 @Arodash I already know you've reported me before because I have strong beliefs that are in opposition to your own. You're trying to get me to say something in direct conflict with the rules, so you can report me again, because you are angry that I persist in not agreeing with you and being extremely critical of your political affiliation. Too bad. Link to post Share on other sites
Ashmedai Posted May 30, 2020 Share Posted May 30, 2020 Can we get this thread back on topic please. Thanks Una Salus Victus Off A Mod Link to post Share on other sites
IceQueenn Posted June 14, 2020 Share Posted June 14, 2020 Poor hygiene. Link to post Share on other sites
Evobessive Posted June 15, 2020 Share Posted June 15, 2020 cheating, being racist, sexist, queerphobic Link to post Share on other sites
Clumsy Fairy Posted June 16, 2020 Share Posted June 16, 2020 Oh every single thing about me. Oh. No. You mean what are things about them that are a....... God, if it ever gets that far I'll let you know. Link to post Share on other sites
SpaceDustbin Posted June 17, 2020 Share Posted June 17, 2020 Being on the other end of the political spectrum is quite a big thing. On a petty level... supporting certain soccer teams Link to post Share on other sites
BodhranBace Posted August 1, 2020 Share Posted August 1, 2020 R-E-S-P-E-C-T you don't know what it means to me. I respect you and you respect me. Link to post Share on other sites
Homer Posted October 25, 2020 Share Posted October 25, 2020 On 6/17/2020 at 8:37 PM, SpaceDustbin said: supporting certain soccer teams I is intrigued Top dealbreaker: Dishonesty. (Not talking about romance here, romance is a dealbreaker on its own.) Link to post Share on other sites
Libellule Posted October 25, 2020 Share Posted October 25, 2020 Possessiveness, not being okay with me having male friends. Link to post Share on other sites
nutterwithasolderingiron Posted October 25, 2020 Share Posted October 25, 2020 i got quite a few but treating me like i'm a "project" they can "fix" not just in the asexual part but ive dated a lot of people who were always trying to change core parts of my personality. because to me it says "i can't accept you how you are so i'm just going to push you into being the version of you i want you to be" this has manifested itself in lots of different ways. some people think they can fix my asexuality, some think they can fix my autism, some think they can fix my trauma, some think me being a musician is childish, some think they can convince me that i want kids. Link to post Share on other sites
SpaceDustbin Posted October 25, 2020 Share Posted October 25, 2020 6 hours ago, Homer said: I is intrigued *cough*Ajax*cough* 😆 Link to post Share on other sites
Homer Posted October 25, 2020 Share Posted October 25, 2020 8 minutes ago, SpaceDustbin said: *cough*Ajax*cough* 😆 Link to post Share on other sites
Catserole Posted October 25, 2020 Share Posted October 25, 2020 Narcissistic personality traits Link to post Share on other sites
Concinnity Posted October 26, 2020 Share Posted October 26, 2020 First indicator to not even start a relationship (of whatever kind) is a person being mean to animals. Like, you don't have to love them, but don't go out of your way to be nasty. That's an immediate dealbreaker. Later on, in theory: lying, cheating, abuse of any kind (including but not limited to demeaning language) etc. Watching romantic/sexual relationships from my "outsider position" it just always baffles me what people will put up with - can't help but thinking that sex really can not be so great as to make that worth it. (Of course I am aware about dynamics in toxic relationships and human nature in general, not saying it is the fault of sex that those issues exist... ) Link to post Share on other sites
GingerRose Posted November 10, 2020 Author Share Posted November 10, 2020 I'm realizing I have a few more dealbreakers than I first thought. *Smoking *Doing recreational drugs * Not accepting LGBT+. *Being super patriotic * Violent Link to post Share on other sites
SpaceDustbin Posted November 10, 2020 Share Posted November 10, 2020 On 10/26/2020 at 10:20 AM, Concinnity said: it just always baffles me what people will put up with Yeah. I know too many people who are so afraid of "ending up alone" that they'd rather be in any relationship, even if it's in no way healthy. Because apparently being in a relationship is more important than being happy Link to post Share on other sites
J. van Deijck Posted November 10, 2020 Share Posted November 10, 2020 I know a woman who keeps being with her husband only because she loves having sex with him. Apparently this is her priority 🤷♀️ Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Posted November 11, 2020 Share Posted November 11, 2020 Hating my loves. You can dislike, but if you're full of hate you ain't no mate. Link to post Share on other sites
Acing It Posted November 11, 2020 Share Posted November 11, 2020 On 5/25/2020 at 4:05 PM, CBC said: Pronunciation of 'scone'. Long 'o', rhymes with 'cone' - Doomed from the start, sorry. We're really just fundamentally incompatible in a way that can't be overcome. Short 'o', rhymes with 'gone' - Do me. Now. Hahah and there's the town Scone in Scotland, which is pronounced Skoon. Link to post Share on other sites
Acing It Posted November 11, 2020 Share Posted November 11, 2020 23 hours ago, GingerRose said: I'm realizing I have a few more dealbreakers than I first thought. *Smoking *Doing recreational drugs * Not accepting LGBT+. *Being super patriotic * Violent All of the above and for me: *wanting sex *lack of body hygiene *dishonesty and 'scheming' * trying to stubbornly fitting me into a box I don't fit into and never well - eg.: stubbornly keeping on to the assumptions about me you had when we first met. Link to post Share on other sites
GingerRose Posted November 11, 2020 Author Share Posted November 11, 2020 Just now, Acing It said: *wanting sex That's a good one too, I just added to my dating app that if they want someone who is 100% sure of their sexuality or is experienced, I am not a good match for them. Link to post Share on other sites
Acing It Posted November 11, 2020 Share Posted November 11, 2020 On 10/25/2020 at 9:09 PM, SpaceDustbin said: *cough*Ajax*cough* 😆 Who doesn't like to keep things clean? Weird 😁 Link to post Share on other sites
GingerRose Posted November 11, 2020 Author Share Posted November 11, 2020 1 minute ago, Acing It said: scheming' This sounds villainous. Who is scheming lol? Link to post Share on other sites
Acing It Posted November 11, 2020 Share Posted November 11, 2020 1 minute ago, GingerRose said: This sounds villainous. Who is scheming lol? All the schemers out there duh! 🙂 I mean, trying anything underhand to get something out of you, including babies. Link to post Share on other sites
LadyWallflower Posted November 11, 2020 Share Posted November 11, 2020 For me: 1. Smoking at all. Drinking excessively. 2. Racist, homophobic, xenophobic, or misogynist behavior. 3. Do not respect me or my interests. 4. Are very messy. (I don't need a neat freak, but should be reasonably clean). 5. Do not help around the apartment. (We must equally help out). 6. Do not understand that I need my alone time. 7. Do not want a pet. 8. Require penetrative sex. Link to post Share on other sites
Acing It Posted November 11, 2020 Share Posted November 11, 2020 On 5/25/2020 at 11:35 PM, Anthracite_Impreza said: I'd like a shelf of them. Reveal hidden contents How disappointing. I was expecting a corgi car! Link to post Share on other sites
Osiyo_Waya Posted November 11, 2020 Share Posted November 11, 2020 45 minutes ago, LadyWallflower said: Smoking at all. Drinking excessively. 46 minutes ago, LadyWallflower said: Do not respect me or my interests. 46 minutes ago, LadyWallflower said: Are very messy. (I don't need a neat freak, but should be reasonably clean). 46 minutes ago, LadyWallflower said: Do not understand that I need my alone time. 46 minutes ago, LadyWallflower said: Require penetrative sex. Yup! Link to post Share on other sites
LadyWallflower Posted November 11, 2020 Share Posted November 11, 2020 @Osiyo_Waya Smart minds think alike! Link to post Share on other sites
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