Guest Posted May 24, 2020 Share Posted May 24, 2020 Is it possible to have romantic feelings for people but when you interact with them you don’t have any chemistry and you have a hard time connecting with them? Yet you still can still experience romantic attraction towards them? Link to post Share on other sites
Just a Quail Posted May 24, 2020 Share Posted May 24, 2020 I assume that is possible? People emphasize it being important to "have chemistry" in relationships, and most experience romantic attraction. By that that logic, shouldn't that mean that it's normal to not have chemistry with someone you have feelings for? I personally wouldn't know 🤷♀️ Link to post Share on other sites
Grey-Ace Ventura Posted May 24, 2020 Share Posted May 24, 2020 Seems totally possible. That's the point of dating, isn't it? To see if you do have chemistry to go along with the romantic feelings? Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Posted May 24, 2020 Share Posted May 24, 2020 I'm just looking at my past crushes and I never had any chemistry with them. Idk if it's just me as a really awkward person who has trouble connecting with others or if I never actually had feelings for them in the first place. I just assume you develop those romantic feelings because you have chemistry. Like the two of them go together if that makes sense. Link to post Share on other sites
Just a Quail Posted May 24, 2020 Share Posted May 24, 2020 13 hours ago, LibraGirl said: I just assume you develop those romantic feelings because you have chemistry. Maybe? It's also possible to have a crush on someone without really knowing or interacting with them. So chemistry doesn't necessarily impact whether you have feelings or not. I think you can consider it to be more correlation than causation. Link to post Share on other sites
Rynn Posted May 24, 2020 Share Posted May 24, 2020 I'm not sure what 'chemistry' means exactly in this context. I mean, I know how the phrase is generally used, but what does it really mean to 'have chemistry'? Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Posted May 24, 2020 Share Posted May 24, 2020 Meaning you are comfortable around each other, can have fun together, and there is no sense of awkwardness or uncertainty. Sharing an emotional connection with someone else. Link to post Share on other sites
SithLord Posted May 25, 2020 Share Posted May 25, 2020 Seems possible, though wouldn't last long for me without chemistry. I generally view losing romantic attraction for someone as the chemistry being gone. Since that's how it's described a lot in media: "The spark was gone." "We just don't have any chemistry anymore." Link to post Share on other sites
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