Well.. hopefully this is a good of a place as any to share my story... I'll try to keep it short and to the point.   I'm a male - in my 30's.. married to a female. But, I absolutely dread sex. My spouse has a high sex drive and would love for us to be intimate daily. She has to basically drag any kind of sex out of me. I don't mind using my fingers / toy on her - but when we try for intercourse, it's never pretty. I'm constantly anxious about the condom breaking, or just simp