Guest Posted April 5, 2020 Share Posted April 5, 2020 Hello everyone! I'm GJ. In short for Gulab Jamun which is a South Asian dessert (literal meaning). I came across this site from the asexual community on Reddit. So glad I did! So, here's my story: I was brought up religiously since the day I was born where a person cannot date/have sex before marriage. And having a sex education was/still is considered taboo. I never liked the idea of sex anyway. Whenever a scene would come on in a movie, TV show, or even in a commercial; I'd gag. I have been with several people but every time they wanted to make out or have sex, I'd get uncomfortable which would eventually lead to break up. For the longest time, I thought something was wrong with me. Friends would say I have been "suppressed" from sex due to my upbringing, or I'm a robot for not talking about who to "bang" based on their physical appearance. I'm not aromantic, I do love holding hands and cuddling but that's it. So I came across someone who was a pansexual demiromantic on Quora and she told me I may be asexual. I had no idea what that word meant. I did my research for some years, and it turned out to be true. Thank you for reading. *_* Link to post Share on other sites
Verb Posted April 5, 2020 Share Posted April 5, 2020 Welcome to AVEN! Link to post Share on other sites
A for ace Posted April 6, 2020 Share Posted April 6, 2020 🍰🍰🍰 Hey! Congrats on your self-discovery. I'm also a relatively new person here with the exact same orientation. Great to find so many similar people here. Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Posted April 6, 2020 Share Posted April 6, 2020 Thank you!! I'm super thankful for this community. 🙂 Link to post Share on other sites
AlexTheGrey Posted April 6, 2020 Share Posted April 6, 2020 Welcome to AVEN!! Link to post Share on other sites
Lichley Posted April 6, 2020 Share Posted April 6, 2020 Welcome! Yeah hugs are the best aren’t they? ☺️ Link to post Share on other sites
ZinxtheJinx Posted April 14, 2020 Share Posted April 14, 2020 Welcoming to the community 🎂 🎂 🎂 Yeah, it’s hard to be our selves in a sex-crazed world be we’ll get through it! If you ever want to talk, feel free to pm me . Link to post Share on other sites
uniQChick Posted April 18, 2020 Share Posted April 18, 2020 Welcome! I like gulab jamun and... I found something special for you... something, that I never seen "Stuffed Gulab Jamun" (stuffing made with dried rose petals, rose syrup and nutmeg powder) Enjoy! >>> recipe <<< Link to post Share on other sites
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