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aromantic but experiences attraction in dreams


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hplovecrafty

I'm asexual and aromantic, i've never experienced attraction and yet I have frequent romantic dreams in which I appear to experience it. In the dreams i'll be with a guy, displaying tender physical intimacy (hugging/laying a head on his chest/stroking my skin or hair/touching) and my chest almost drops like I have butterflies then gets warm and fuzzy. It feels intense but good…and sort of comforting? I told my friend about this the other day and she said that's what a crush/love feels like and now I am completely freaked out and confused. I don't know if anybody can help with this or figure out why my brain likes to torture me ahaha but thought it worth the try! 

 

Also if there's anybody else that experiences this, lmk! 

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WolfDreamer

1. This post reminds me of the start of the Beautiful Creatures books.

2. Maybe try to have a relationship with  guy that reminds u of the one in your dreams.......if u ever find one.

3. Research dream meanings.

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HonoraryJedi

You don't have to get freaked out by dreams. Dreams are just dreams. I like to think of them as your brain cleaning out. Sometimes influenced by things that have been on your mind a lot recently. Sometimes you get random stuff that you have no idea where it came from. I've had a dream where I had a crush on the grim reaper. I have not experienced crushes like that before or since. I don't think it had any particular meaning. So does having romantic dreams mean that you will experience real romantic feelings in the future? No idea! Dreams are weird. Don't overthink it. 

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hplovecrafty
On 4/5/2020 at 1:26 PM, HonoraryJedi said:

You don't have to get freaked out by dreams. Dreams are just dreams. I like to think of them as your brain cleaning out. Sometimes influenced by things that have been on your mind a lot recently. Sometimes you get random stuff that you have no idea where it came from. I've had a dream where I had a crush on the grim reaper. I have not experienced crushes like that before or since. I don't think it had any particular meaning. So does having romantic dreams mean that you will experience real romantic feelings in the future? No idea! Dreams are weird. Don't overthink it. 

"Dreams are just dreams" "don't overthink it" I need to remember that, thank you :) Yeah my housemates started dating each other last October and my dreams started around the same time, maybe i'm processing that? interesting either way. 

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Mark Paskinsky

If I were you, I would not be able to settle down till I found out about the meaning of this dream! For real! If you are uncomfortable asking someone about your dreams personally, or you cannot find clear answers to your questions, my only advice to you is to find a good specialist online. My cousin has a dream book with recorded dreams, which she showed to her medium. I was shocked by how that woman had already sorted out her issues, like for instance a snake in a dream. This one is astonishing. After I have read her explanation to it, even I was the one who understood the issues my cousin had. She has a bunch more things to offer, to tell, just get in touch with her.

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I once had a dream where I was happily dating a giant shark in a tuxedo. 😐 I wouldn't worry too much over dreams, but if you think there's a deeper meaning then feel free to explore it further, dream meanings can be fun and informative. 😊

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