Germ Posted June 9, 2021 Share Posted June 9, 2021 Asexual Wellbeing By Kaya Wilkins. Sometimes i rub my ghost dick until i can almost see it but right now all i need is your cerebral per diem that midnight van leuwen netflix and yeast infection i know sex with me is mediocre but i can give you asexual wellbeing sex with me is mediocre but i can probably feel what you’re feeling if they can put a pulse into a spinach leaf can they turn the two of us into a tree? you still have the spare key i have vegan peanut butter chocolate icescream I just want us to do well like jon bon jovi's rosé Quote Link to post Share on other sites
teetojen Posted June 10, 2021 Share Posted June 10, 2021 Only the Brave by Louis Tomlinson, specifically these lyrics: "I been close enough to touch But I never cared for love It’s a church of burnt romances And I’m too far gone to pray It’s a solo song And it’s only for the brave" ... "And they’ll say ‘I told you so, Come on, when you know, you know’ All the lonely shadow dances From the cradle to the grave It’s a solo song And it’s only for the brave" 3 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
rrahibe Posted June 12, 2021 Share Posted June 12, 2021 Refrain part👍🏻 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
ilovebooksandchocolate Posted June 15, 2021 Share Posted June 15, 2021 Moses Sumney! He speaks to my asexual, aromantic, and introverted soul. The music is etherial, weird and unique but that's how I like music. He has an entire album dedicated to Aromanticism alone. He also challenges the typical boxes/constraints of masculinity. It's the kind of music that you listen before going to bed if your feeling kinda lonely. 2 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
cat_lady Posted July 22, 2021 Share Posted July 22, 2021 I just discovered this song and I interpret the lyrics as an anthem for asexuality. The video and some of their other songs are very sexualized, so I don't think that's what the song is about, but the singer seems so comfortable with her body while also maintaining a powerful independence. I don't think many asexuals feel powerful (at least not in the beginning.) Some key lyrics: "They looking at me, I don't mind Now it is easy to walk on by I don't want what you got so you better move along" "I ain't gonna break for that I'm a Wonder Woman (watch out!) I ain't gonna take all that I'm a Wonder Woman (watch out) That'll get you nowhere" "You don't wanna go there Trying to confuse me say I need you when I know I don't That'll get you nowhere" 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
yellowleaf Posted July 22, 2021 Share Posted July 22, 2021 I love most music, and currently "I'm Not in Love" by 10cc has been playing on repeat in my mind. What's weird is my FAV current artist for the past 3-4 years has been The Weeknd even though sex is a a very popular topic of his music. but I wouldn't necessarily say sex is a *theme*. a lot of it is about lacking emotional availability, the things we give into against our will, and the dramas/darker side of sexual relationships that make them not as great as most people/institutions paint it out to be. Idk I also just love his voice. Anyone feel similarly? 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
amillionstars Posted July 23, 2021 Share Posted July 23, 2021 D&D and Asexuality by the Skull Puppies. Basically what it says on the label. Some super nerdy punk music about not wanting sex and just wanting to be loved. Speaks directly to my soul https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CqUK6tNhwJE 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
introvertedteacher Posted July 24, 2021 Share Posted July 24, 2021 I ain't no hollaback girl 😁 Gwen Stefani 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
StarryNightAllAlone Posted July 24, 2021 Share Posted July 24, 2021 Shania Twain - Man! I Feel Like A Woman! Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Janus the Fox Posted July 24, 2021 Share Posted July 24, 2021 6 hours ago, StarryNightAllAlone said: Shania Twain - Man! I Feel Like A Woman! That, but for personal gender reasons 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
ThatsmyACEthetic Posted August 7, 2021 Share Posted August 7, 2021 (edited) I really like crush culture by Conan Gray. The music video with it is awesome too, because he’s just going around angry about people being too romantic around him lol, plus it’s a bop. Some lines I especially resonate with (as an Aroace) are: I don't care if I'm forever alone I'm not falling for you 'Cause this baby is loveproof And Crush culture makes me wanna spill my guts out I know what you're doin', trying to get me to pursue you I’d definitely suggest checking it out! And I almost forgot to mention ‘Heart Heavy’ by Mother Mother, as that’s similar-ish too Edited August 7, 2021 by ThatsmyACEthetic Forgot to mention something 3 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Osiyo_Waya Posted August 8, 2021 Share Posted August 8, 2021 I've always interpreted this as someone dispelling a lie, tearing off a facade, and embracing a truth, regardless of how painful it might be. Because perpetuating the lie is much, much worse... "Finding Myself" by Smile Empty Soul I don't care anymore if I let you down I believe that I need to be free I'm so used to my life with you around I don't know anymore....the real me And i thought i found my self today And I thought that I had control All the change in my life just fell away For a moment I didn't need you All these tears that I've cried You must be tired of taking care of me but Its what you do best and I'm a liar cause really its what I need And I thought that I found myself today And I thought that I had control All the change in my life just fell away For a moment I didn't need you Someone like you Someone like me Maybe its change that set you free Free.... And I thought that I found myself today And I thought that I had control All the change in my life just fell away For a moment I didn't need you And I thought that I found myself today And I thought that I had control All the change in my life just fell away For a moment I didn't need you 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Aloney Posted August 8, 2021 Share Posted August 8, 2021 Haha, maybe a weird pick, but "Money" by Mystery Skulls? :'D I mean, for once a song that is a bop that doesn't have anything love or relationship -related in it xD The line "I used to worry everyday - now I got better things" always makes me grin Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Scylactic Posted August 10, 2021 Share Posted August 10, 2021 Soul Sister by Train Quote Link to post Share on other sites
quaintrelle Posted August 10, 2021 Share Posted August 10, 2021 I get aroace vibes from these songs. Nowhere Man by The Beatles He's a real nowhere man Sitting in his nowhere land Making all his nowhere plans for nobody Doesn't have a point of view Knows not where he's going to Isn't he a bit like you and me? Nowhere man please listen You don't know what you're missing Nowhere man, the world is at your command He's as blind as he can be Just sees what he wants to see Nowhere man, can you see me at all Nowhere man don't worry Take your time, don't hurry Leave it all 'til somebody else Lends you a hand Ah, la, la, la, la Doesn't have a point of view Knows not where he's going to Isn't he a bit like you and me? Nowhere man please listen You don't know what you're missing Nowhere man, The world is at your command Ah, la, la, la, la He's a real nowhere man Sitting in his nowhere land Making all his nowhere plans for nobody Making all his nowhere plans for nobody Making all his nowhere plans for nobody Girl on Fire by Alicia Keys She's just a girl, and she's on fire Hotter than a fantasy, lonely like a highway She's living in a world and it's on fire Filled with catastrophe but she knows she can fly away Ohh-oh, she got both feet on the ground And she's burning it down Ohh-oh, she got her head in the clouds And she's not backing down This girl is on fire This girl is on fire She's walking on fire This girl is on fire Looks like a girl but she's a flame So bright, she can burn your eyes Better look the other way You can try but you'll never forget her name She's on top of the world Hottest of the hottest girls say Ohh-oh, we got our feet on the ground And we're burning it down Ohh-oh, got our head in the clouds And we're not coming down This girl is on fire (fire, fire) This girl is on fire She's walking on fire (fire, fire) This girl is on fire (ohh) Everybody stares as she goes by 'Cause they can see the flame that's in her eyes Watch her as she's lighting up the night Nobody knows that she's a lonely girl And it's a lonely world But she gon' let it burn, baby, burn, baby This girl is on fire (fire, fire) This girl is on fire She's walking on fire (fire, fire) This girl is on fire Ohh-oh, ohh-oh, ohh-oh Ohh-oh, ohh-oh, ohh, ohh-oh Ohh-oh, ohh-oh, ohh, ohh Ohh-oh, ohh-oh, ohh, oh She's just a girl but she's on fire 2 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
marieatsplants Posted August 11, 2021 Share Posted August 11, 2021 I made a spotify playlist with some of my faves! (here she is) I love I'm Good by The Mowglis and No Lover by Jetty Bones Quote Link to post Share on other sites
fuzzipueo Posted August 11, 2021 Share Posted August 11, 2021 Unwritten By Natasha Bedingfield I am unwritten Can't read my mind I'm undefined I'm just beginning The pen's in my hand Ending unplanned Staring at the blank page before you Open up the dirty window Let the sun illuminate the words that you could not find Reaching for something in the distance So close you can almost taste it Release your inhibitions Feel the rain on your skin No one else can feel it for you Only you can let it in No one else, no one else Can speak the words on your lips Drench yourself in words unspoken Live your life with arms wide open Today is where your book begins The rest is still unwritten Oh, oh, oh I break tradition Sometimes my tries are outside the lines We've been conditioned to not make mistakes But I can't live that way Staring at the blank page before you Open up the dirty window Let the sun illuminate the words that you could not find Reaching for something in the distance So close you can almost taste it Release your inhibitions Feel the rain on your skin No one else can feel it for you Only you can let it in No one else, no one else Can speak the words on your lips Drench yourself in words unspoken Live your life with arms wide open Today is where your book begins Feel the rain on your skin No one else can feel it for you Only you can let it in No one else, no one else Can speak the words on your lips Drench yourself in words unspoken Live your life with arms wide open Today is where your book begins The rest is still unwritten Staring at the blank page before you Open up the dirty window Let the sun illuminate the words that you could not find Reaching for something in the distance So close you can almost taste it Release your inhibitions Feel the rain on your skin No one else can feel it for you Only you can let it in No one else, no one else Can speak the words on your lips Drench yourself in words unspoken Live your life with arms wide open Today is where your book begins Feel the rain on your skin No one else can feel it for you Only you can let it in No one else, no one else Can speak the words on your lips Drench yourself in words unspoken Live your life with arms wide open Today is where your book begins The rest is still unwritten The rest is still unwritten The rest is still unwritten Oh, yeah, yeah 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
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Guest Posted December 14, 2021 Share Posted December 14, 2021 I'm a survivor -destiny's child Quote Link to post Share on other sites
a little annihilation Posted December 15, 2021 Share Posted December 15, 2021 "You're appealing to emotions that I simply do not have" Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Janus the Fox Posted December 15, 2021 Share Posted December 15, 2021 On 12/14/2021 at 11:37 AM, alansmokes said: All Queen albums, makes me feel goosebumps Big same, like for some reason I like The Miracle and Innuendo Albums quite a bit. Possible because as Freddy Mercury had not long left to live, most of these songs where highly emotional, personal even. The creative output feels a lot different, even if it feels slightly rushed for good reason. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Sister Mercurial Posted December 15, 2021 Share Posted December 15, 2021 To those who understand I extend my hand To the doubtful, I demand Take me as I am Not under your command I know where I stand I won't change to fit your plan Take me as I am Quote Link to post Share on other sites
morton51 Posted December 18, 2021 Share Posted December 18, 2021 Pulp - Do You Remember the First Time? You say you've got to go home Well at least there's someone there that you can talk to And you never have to face up to the night on your own Jesus, it must be great to be straight. Do you remember the first time? I can't remember a worse time But you know that we've changed so much since then Oh yeah We've grown Now I don't care what you're doing No I don't care if you screw him Just as long as you save a piece for me Oh yeah It's probably accidental lyric writing (the proposition later is a giveaway!), but this captures so much of the awkwardness of navigating a non-ace world. Cracking tune too IMHO. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
MollyLauren Posted December 18, 2021 Share Posted December 18, 2021 you have to check out its just sex by car seat headrest it starts off with the lyrics "The other night I cried while thinking of having sex with you" very relatable But when I feel you My flesh yields no pleasure And honey I'm cultured I'm very sex positive So what is this feeling? It ain't so positive I can't tell you if I like it, I like it What happens if I don't like it? and this lyric; Baby, my body Constantly betrays me I try to betray it I only hurt myself Yeah, yeah I feel that deep in my chest. Forcing yourself and hurting yourself! Quote Link to post Share on other sites
perzon Posted January 8, 2022 Share Posted January 8, 2022 I have a list of songs that i think are ace-coded: A Pearl by Mitski It’s Only Sex by Carseat Headrest D&D + Asexuality by Skull Puppies Crush Culture by Conan Gray Love Myself by Hailee Steinfeld I Am Not a Robot by MARINA Hookup Culture by Jordan Suaste I’m Happy Just to Dance With You by The Beatles Running Up That Hill (A Deal With God) by Kate Bush We Don’t Want Your Body by Stars Ace for Hearts by Mad Tsai (could only find it on YouTube) And then here’s ones that i just like, that arent necessarily asexual (but that talk about friends, relationships and individuality): You’ve Got a Friend in Me (i found a great cover by Cavetown) If We Have Each Other by Alec Benjamin The Village by Wrabel Wild Things by Alessia Cara Body by Jordan Suaste Must Have Been the Wind by Alec Benjamin Quote Link to post Share on other sites
bare_trees Posted January 9, 2022 Share Posted January 9, 2022 I think this is actually a song about telling someone who's attracted to you that you're taken, but I've always interpreted it as aroace, and that the narrator is dreading explaining to the person pursuing her that she's not interested in romantic relationships at all. I Don't Feel So Well by Vienna Teng I don't feel so well I thought that you should know I thought that you should know That I don't feel so well I thought that you should know before you fall I don't call them back I thought that you should know I thought that you should know That I don't call them back I thought that you should know before you fall I saw it begin to dawn on us both That somehow it wasn't surprising And so you're preparing to swear every oath And all the while I'm realizing I can't love you then I thought that you should know I thought that you should know That I can't love you then I thought that you should know before you fall I saw it begin to dawn on us both That somehow it wasn't surprising And so you're preparing to swear every oath And all the while I'm realizing I can't love you then I thought that you should know I thought that you should know That I can't love you then I thought that you should know before you fall 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
wordforger Posted January 9, 2022 Share Posted January 9, 2022 One Night in Bangkok by Murray Head Bangkok, Oriental setting And the city don't know that the city is getting The creme de la creme of the chess world In a show with everything but Yul Brynner Time flies doesn't seem a minute Since the Tirolean spa had the chess boys in it All change don't you know that when you Play at this level there's no ordinary venue It's Iceland or the Philippines or Hastings or Or this place! One night in Bangkok and the world's your oyster The bars are temples but the pearls ain't free You'll find a god in every golden cloister And if you're lucky then the god's a she I can feel an angel sliding up to me One town's very like another When your head's down over your pieces, brother It's a drag, it's a bore, it's really such a pity To be looking at the board, not looking at the city Whaddya mean? Ya seen one crowded, polluted, stinking town Tea, girls, warm, sweet Some are set up in the Somerset Maugham suite Get thai'd, you're talking to a tourist Whose every move's among the purest I get my kicks above the waistline, sunshine One night in Bangkok makes a hard man humble Not much between despair and ecstasy One night in Bangkok and the tough guys tumble Can't be too careful with your company I can feel the devil walking next to me Siam's gonna be the witness To the ultimate test of cerebral fitness This grips me more than would a Muddy old river or reclining Buddha And thank God I'm only watching the game controlling it I don't see you guys rating The kind of mate I'm contemplating I'd let you watch, I would invite you But the queens we use would not excite you So you better go back to your bars, your temples Your massage parlours One night in Bangkok and the world's your oyster The bars are temples but the pearls ain't free You'll find a god in every golden cloister A little flesh, a little history I can feel an angel sliding up to me One night in Bangkok makes a hard man humble Not much between despair and ecstasy One night in Bangkok and the tough guys tumble Can't be too careful with your company I can feel the devil walking next to me 3 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Milque Toast Posted January 9, 2022 Share Posted January 9, 2022 mentioned by @perzon, Oh no! by Marina really just sounds like a song made for asexuals to me. I Am Not A Robot is obvious, as well of course, but this one really struck me, especially the lyrics: TV taught me how to feel Now real life has no appeal like I hope I don't need to explain myself- I'm sure a lot of a-spec people can relate to this. Plus, I also listened to this great ace-coded playlist on youtube a while ago ! 2 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Lilibulero Posted January 9, 2022 Share Posted January 9, 2022 @quaintrelle, Nowhere Man sounds like an anti- aroace anthem. It's about sheeple not aromantic asexuals IMO Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Galenity Posted February 4, 2022 Share Posted February 4, 2022 Normal by Katie Pruitt. She sings about being gay, but this part really gets me: Stumblin' 'round Athens with frat boys in hot pursuit Left me starin' at the ceilin', pissed off and feelin' used Wasted and worn out and wonderin', "Where do I fit?" And scared as hell 'cause I knew I was different What's it like to be normal? To want what normal girls should? God knows life would be easier If I could be normal, then trust me, I would Trust me, I would Quote Link to post Share on other sites
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