Did your attitude about possibly having sex change over time?

[notfeelingit98]

I originally thought I was sex-repulsed ace (when I was abt 15yo). When I hot older, I experienced sexual attraction suddenly. To like, two people total.

 

So I think I wasn't entirely wrong. It's just that I'm probably something in the likes of demisexual. And since I did not have any emotional connections strong enough to allow sexual attraction to exist, I concluded I was sex-repulsed as a teen. (And I would only have sex with a person that I have said connection to, of course. Anyone else just isn't desirable for me in that way.)

[Princess KittenSparkles]

Whoops...I should've answered here instead of at the other forum hahaa. I'll quote what I said over there:

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SO I saw your poll and my answer to your question is that my willingness to want sex is still unchanged. However, EVERYTHING ELSE surrounding sex (physical touch, fetishes, kinks, deep kissing, music, sexual innuendos, movies, sexual dancing, foreplay, etc.) does not bother me now and I am actually quite comfortable with it.

 

So...Did my attitude change about sex? Sure, 100%. Would I ever be willing to have sex? No...not at all. So it's a yes and a no for me lol. 

 

The older I got, the more I realized that the world around me will not change and I will be the one who has to change and become comfortable with the hypersexuality around me if I want to 'survive'. So I did and now I feel more comfortable with my surroundings and less anxious.

 

However. The action of sex and it involving me has always felt disgusting to me so that opinion has not changed, no matter how much I have tried to change it in the past. So my asexuality is "here to stay". I don't know if that makes sense? To feel more comfortable with sexual themes but not sex itself? I still have never felt sexual attraction towards another person, had sexual thoughts/dreams, or desires for it. I could go on my entire life without ever having it and I would be alright. 

[Guest]

It changes totally at random from week to week TBH.

[OptimisticPessimist]

Nope, i'm sex repulsed when it comes to myself. 

[iff]

@Nowhere Girl

 

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