hpsique Posted January 27, 2020 Share Posted January 27, 2020 Hello folks, I literally just found this forum, despite being research for asexuality for a little wile. Over the last couple years, I realized that I only want to have sex with someone for may be 3 or 4 times. I have been in different relationships lasting from 6 months to 3 years, and, most of the cases, it fell apart because my lack of interest in sex. I realized that having sex after those 3 or 4 times became a masturbatory action and quite selfish. I believe I classify as a gray person, would you agree? Thanks in advance! Link to post Share on other sites
Rynn Posted January 27, 2020 Share Posted January 27, 2020 Yeah, maybe gray. Have you ever heard the term fraysexual? Google it, that might fit. Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Posted January 27, 2020 Share Posted January 27, 2020 Hmm, I don't know how romantic you are but you're likely better off single with that kind of sexuality. Enjoy being single. Link to post Share on other sites
AceMissBehaving Posted January 27, 2020 Share Posted January 27, 2020 I find that in the beginning of a relationship I can have sex, I think I part because of the novelty and the “new relationship energy”. It seems pretty common for ace folk to be able to keep up with partners very early on, but then have the ability kind of vanish once the limerence stage is over. Link to post Share on other sites
AceMissBehaving Posted January 27, 2020 Share Posted January 27, 2020 26 minutes ago, KrysLost said: Hmm, I don't know how romantic you are but you're likely better off single with that kind of sexuality. Enjoy being single. That’s a rather cruel thing to say Link to post Share on other sites
Rynn Posted January 27, 2020 Share Posted January 27, 2020 34 minutes ago, KrysLost said: Hmm, I don't know how romantic you are but you're likely better off single with that kind of sexuality. Enjoy being single. Or maybe polyamory would work. Or being with an ace person if you're monogamous. I don't think you'd necessarily have to be single. Link to post Share on other sites
hpsique Posted January 27, 2020 Author Share Posted January 27, 2020 52 minutes ago, KrysLost said: Hmm, I don't know how romantic you are but you're likely better off single with that kind of sexuality. Enjoy being single. Thanks for contributing with something totally unrelated with my original question: 1 hour ago, hpsique said: I believe I classify as a gray person, would you agree? thanks. Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Posted January 27, 2020 Share Posted January 27, 2020 27 minutes ago, hpsique said: Thanks for contributing with something totally unrelated with my original question: thanks. JDljfasd sorry if I came off as rude. I can now see see that was quite the stupid reply. Link to post Share on other sites
uhtred Posted January 27, 2020 Share Posted January 27, 2020 Nothing wrong with wanting new partners. Just be honest with partners (and yourself!) so that everyone is on the same page. A series of short relationships or open relationships could work. Link to post Share on other sites
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