Finding a romantic relationship?

[teaaddict]

Hi,

I've never been interested in sex(never will be) and while I wouldn't say I'm sex repulsed, I don't think I would ever willingly have it unless I wanted kids one day. A 21 year old virgin, to be frank. 

However, I still like the idea of being in a romantic relationship(they do say sex should only be 10% of a relationship anyway). Someone to share my life with in a way that a best friend or family member just...can't. Someone to move in with and spend my life with.

How do you guys who are interested in the same thing meet people? , 

I've never dated someone, only gone on a few dates with people who obviously wanted something more physical. I don't want that, and I panic so badly at the prospect of having to deal with failed dates forever where a guy goes to try something, that it's been 3 years since I've even tried.

 

I try not to let it bother me. It's not like I crave the physical parts of a relationship. But I just feel so lonely sometimes, even with a friend to talk to.