Switters Posted January 7, 2020 Share Posted January 7, 2020 So after 4 years with my partner I figured out she was asexual. It's omething she learned in therapy but was afraid to talk about until I brought it up. I am totally accepting of this. But the reality is that I DO have primal needs. My wife is not jealous and has no problem with me fulfilling me needs but I can't. Being autistic I spent my life learning the rules and the idea of being with another woman is actually painful. I never understood relationships so learned from books...and unfortunately 80's movies. I have never enjoyed sex without a connection. Ever. Suggestions? Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Posted January 7, 2020 Share Posted January 7, 2020 The only thing you can do really is have a conversation with her and discuss whether it’s feasible for any sexual activity to continue (if that’s what you want/need). The result of that conversation is then where you both are to go from. Best of luck. Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Posted January 7, 2020 Share Posted January 7, 2020 actually ignore this, i read your post wrong. Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Posted January 7, 2020 Share Posted January 7, 2020 Well... if you're not into poly (could have emotional connection sex with someone else) or open then the only options are celibacy or compromise sex, depending on comfort levels. Link to post Share on other sites
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