Anonymus Posted December 17, 2019 Share Posted December 17, 2019 So as someone who is asexual and in a relationship, there's always this issue that comes with certain parts of it where I am like, I want but then I don't want to want this or wanting this makes me dirty or bad or something or you know I might this but also not and I don't is it an asexual thing? Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Ace Pilot Posted December 17, 2019 Share Posted December 17, 2019 Assuming I understand your question right, the idea of wanting something making you “dirty or bad” sounds like it may come from society or religion more than your asexuality. It’s okay to want something and it’s also okay to wish you didn’t want that thing. It’s important to remember that you ultimately have control over your actions. Even if you want something, you don’t have to do anything that will make you feel uncomfortable. My advice is to find a pace you are comfortable with. I hope this helps! 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Janus the Fox Posted December 18, 2019 Share Posted December 18, 2019 Wanting the want for a romantic sexual relationship, but a fear that such could develop is dirty or bad? If it’s an accurate interpretation I can understand that in my ow relationship Quote Link to post Share on other sites
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