Am I overthinking it all?

[Sarah-Sylvia]

2 hours ago, Rune_Weaver said:

So after therapy yesterday and doing a lot of thinking... I think most (if not all) my questioning stems from self esteem issues... I care too much what other people think and feel like I'm a fake because I do have a sex drive, even though being ACE has nothing to do with that... so yeah... thank you to everyone who has helped me think this out. I'm not 100% sure I'm cis, but I think if any label does apply it's a micro-microlabel that honestly no one would even know of anyways, so cis-female is probably just easier. 

Well, it's good not to question from worry, anyway As long as you can keep exploring and know it's ok however you are, you might find some stuff, but it's good to have a base too. Whether it's about sexuality, or gender expressions, or being a little non-binary in some way, you're still you. I think a lot of us have self-esteem issues, too. It's not fun. We need to learn to be ok with how we are, and find what feels good to us, I think happiness is a good measure.