CactiAndTigers Posted December 3, 2019 Share Posted December 3, 2019 I Find That I'm Generally Not Attracted To Sex, Nor Any Part Of It ... But I Do Masturbate Sometimes When My Body Puts The Thoughts And Sensations Across! I Try To Get Off ASAP As I Just Kinda Wanna Get It Over With And It's Not Often, Like 1-2 A Month If I'm "Lucky" But The Idea Of Sex And All Things Sexual Does Not Appeal To Me At All ... Does That Still Fall Under Asexual? I'm Kinda Confused About It 2 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Phantasmal Fingers Posted December 3, 2019 Share Posted December 3, 2019 22 minutes ago, CactiAndTigers said: Does That Still Fall Under Asexual? I'm Kinda Confused About It It does, I think. But there are no hard and fast rules on this subject.ย ๐คญ Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Sinking_In Posted December 3, 2019 Share Posted December 3, 2019 27 minutes ago, CactiAndTigers said: The Idea Of Sex And All Things Sexual Does Not Appeal To Me At All ^That pretty much falls into "asexuality", but it's entirely up to you to define who you are. As for masturbation & frequency, it varies for sexuals and asexuals, alike. 2 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Pinball Wizard Posted December 3, 2019 Share Posted December 3, 2019 Yes, you are still an ace even if you masturbate. I think being ace isย "do you have a sexual desire towards another person?", and self-pleasure doesn't really apply there (no matter what stimulates you). I think anyway....... ย 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
SithLord Posted December 3, 2019 Share Posted December 3, 2019 You can be asexual and masturbate. We're not responsible for our biology after all. Actions don't determine our orientation, only our thoughts and feelings do. If you're not sexually attracted to anyone, then you're asexual. 2 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Kasseb Posted December 4, 2019 Share Posted December 4, 2019 2 hours ago, CactiAndTigers said: I Find That I'm Generally Not Attracted To Sex, Nor Any Part Of It ... But I Do Masturbate Sometimes When My Body Puts The Thoughts And Sensations Across! I Try To Get Off ASAP As I Just Kinda Wanna Get It Over With And It's Not Often, Like 1-2 A Month If I'm "Lucky" But The Idea Of Sex And All Things Sexual Does Not Appeal To Me At All ... Does That Still Fall Under Asexual? I'm Kinda Confused About It Depends, from my understanding, asexuality refers to... well, sexuality. That refers to the arousal, sexually, from one of the sexes. If you have sexual feelings, but you're not attracted to either male or female, you're still asexual. I don't think being unattracted to the concept of sex makes one asexual, personally. But, it shouldn't matter what box you honestly fit in. Just be you. You come off as asexual, in which case, you are. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
That Ginger Kid Posted December 4, 2019 Share Posted December 4, 2019 Iโd definitely consider this to be part of asexuality. Not all asexuals have low or no sex drive, but we all share a lack of sexual attraction (or, for many, sexual attraction under certain circumstances only). Youโre still human and your body still sends out chemical signals that tell you to act in a certain way. If you feel the need to masturbate but have little to no interest in sex, sounds like youโre part of the ace club! Welcome! However, you ultimately get to choose what label (if any) suits you best, so maybe explore around a little bit. Get to know some different identities if asexual doesnโt seem to fit too well. Either way, as long as youโre pleasant, the people on here seem pretty accepting of people of any type, so youโre more than welcome to stick around if you find youโre not aceย Quote Link to post Share on other sites
south paw Posted December 4, 2019 Share Posted December 4, 2019 yup! I can relate with this!ย I believe theย term for this category of asexuality isย "Autochorisexual". Here's what Wikia says:ย ย "Autochorissexuals are known to: -Get aroused by sexual content but not actually want to engage in any sexual activities -Masturbate, but are neutral or repulsed by the idea of having sex with another person. -Fantasize about sex, but envision people other than themselves, and/or view it in third person, as though they're watching it on TV, rather than imagining it in first person, through their own eyes. -Predominantly or entirely fantasize about fictional characters or celebrities, rather than people in real life they know. -Identify as asexual and feel no sexual attraction to people, but enjoy masturbating, are aroused by sexually explicit content, and/or have sexual fantasies." ย ย Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Janus the Fox Posted December 4, 2019 Share Posted December 4, 2019 Masturbation ability means little to nothing about the sexuality to me. ย Iโm so much detached to it itโs just biology reactions in the absence of anything in the mind. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
๐๐จ๐จ Posted December 8, 2019 Share Posted December 8, 2019 Oh the libido question again. eek. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
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