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Sex apathetic people and how we describe ourselves


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I would describe my sexuality as sex-apathetic aromantic pansexual. I am indifferent to sex—I don't mind having sex, but I'm not going out of my way in search of it. I enjoy fantasising about sex, but if you asked me to do it, I'd check if I don't have anything to do for next hour, and do it sure (As long as you're trust worthy). I don't know how to describe myself accurately—I mainly use sex-apathetic aromantic pansexual; My sexual attraction to certain genders and certain body parts changes constantly, but it's not like I've no interest in anything else. E.g. I can be attracted to penis, men with penises, trans/NB people with penises, more than I am attracted to vagina, but I am still attracted to women, vagina, and trans/NB people with vagina. I go back and forth between liking penis, vaniga, men, women, adrogyneous peeps. What's your experience?

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I would describe my sex life as pathetic

 

More seriously, it doesn't interest me, I'm probably too shy now given my age. As for 'sexual attraction' I wouldn't count my tastes in pornography or whatever gets me off as anything to do with my orientation or actual sexual attraction. Kink/fetish are separate things and sexual attraction is more complicated than liking different bits of each physical gender, especially when it comes to actual sex.

 

Androgynous people are indeed very attractive, e.g. Cara Delevingne 🙃

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On 11/25/2019 at 4:29 AM, œddy said:

Androgynous people are indeed very attractive, e.g. Cara Delevingne 

RIGHT!?

 

Back on track...

 

I feel a similar way! I’m pretty confident to label myself as asexual biromantic but relationships don’t interest me much. I’ve never gone out of my way in search of sex, but it doesn’t stop it from happening on the rare occasions when it is very convenient. Even though it’s fun and all, people don’t seem to turn me on enough to ever make any first moves. 
 

note: I am a side hoe 😞

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everclear1973

I would describe myself as being an sex-repulsed female aromatic asexual. I feel no sexual attraction towards males or females. Certain words (here goes, I hate saying them), penis, vagina, sex, kiss etc) make me feel disgusted. I've had one sexual relationship in my 46 years, and it was hell. I hated it to the point where I couldn't look at my ex-boyfriend when we were having sex. I had to close my eyes and wait for it to be over. So everything to do with sex and body parts to me is disgusting and revolting. Pornography doesn't interest me either. 

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