Thomflan90 Posted November 14, 2019 Share Posted November 14, 2019 Hello Asexuality.org I'm a 29 yr old Male from Brisbane, Australia. I have had sex when I was younger and I have been in maybe 4? Relationships my whole life, I'm completely heterosexual, have no sexual incline towards other Males but at the same time, very little towards the opposite sex. I love the company of a woman, I love the cuddling and the talking and laughing, however I'm in a boat where I will enjoy sex if it's given but I have absolutely no drive to actively go and seek attention from the opposite sex. It's been a lot of years since I've had actual intercourse and when I did, it wasn't very fun. I guess I'm posting this to see if I genuinely am in the spectrum of asexuality or is there an underlying issue that I need to deal with and THAT will open up my ability to enjoy heterosexuality???? Link to post Share on other sites
psychosomatic Posted November 18, 2019 Share Posted November 18, 2019 I can relate to that. I view myself as demisexual / gray. It was tough for me to figure out as I was attracted aesthetically and sensually, just not that sexually. I've had a few sexual experiences, but it is not very exciting unless I have feelings for the person. And I don't actively seek it out, others always initiated it. I've never had relationships, but I am now getting to the point where I want a relationship, just not one where sex is a big deal. There are all kinds on the asexuality spectrum. Check out the types of attraction, that helped me out a LOT Link to post Share on other sites
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