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Suddenly biromantic?


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Now I know that my sexuality always fluctuated a bit over the years, since I initially saw myself as asexual, but now only identify as gray-ace because a bit of sexual attraction sneaked in recently. But no matter how confusing my sexual orientation might have been to me, I always kinda took it for granted that I am heteroromantic, or gray-heteroromantic, since I don't have crushes as much as most other people do, but if I do, my attraction has always been directed at males. Well, up until now, as it seems. I recently met a girl I catch myself thinking about far too often - I find her cute in a way I usually only think about guys, and I would really like to hold hands or cuddle with her. Now that I think about it, dating the same sex doesn't seem like such a far-fetched idea anymore (not that I am against it, I just could have never imagined myself dating the same sex up until recently). 

 

I am so confused. Can it really happen that after so many years of solely crushing on males, I might actually also develop an interest in females? I know that things like sexuality and romantic orientation can change over time, but could the feelings I experience actually indicate I might be biromantic? Or are these just strong, but still platonic feelings I am dealing with right now?

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Maybe attraction to women is just rare for you. 

 

What you are describing doesn't sound platonic to me.

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Janus the Fox

This is how pretty much how things happen, curiosity to a real genuine interest can happen over time for a few.  Take things slow and maybe interest develops.

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