Hui Posted November 11, 2019 Share Posted November 11, 2019 Now I know that my sexuality always fluctuated a bit over the years, since I initially saw myself as asexual, but now only identify as gray-ace because a bit of sexual attraction sneaked in recently. But no matter how confusing my sexual orientation might have been to me, I always kinda took it for granted that I am heteroromantic, or gray-heteroromantic, since I don't have crushes as much as most other people do, but if I do, my attraction has always been directed at males. Well, up until now, as it seems. I recently met a girl I catch myself thinking about far too often - I find her cute in a way I usually only think about guys, and I would really like to hold hands or cuddle with her. Now that I think about it, dating the same sex doesn't seem like such a far-fetched idea anymore (not that I am against it, I just could have never imagined myself dating the same sex up until recently). I am so confused. Can it really happen that after so many years of solely crushing on males, I might actually also develop an interest in females? I know that things like sexuality and romantic orientation can change over time, but could the feelings I experience actually indicate I might be biromantic? Or are these just strong, but still platonic feelings I am dealing with right now? Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Posted November 11, 2019 Share Posted November 11, 2019 It is possibile. I had the same situation. Link to post Share on other sites
Rynn Posted November 14, 2019 Share Posted November 14, 2019 Maybe attraction to women is just rare for you. What you are describing doesn't sound platonic to me. Link to post Share on other sites
Janus the Fox Posted November 16, 2019 Share Posted November 16, 2019 This is how pretty much how things happen, curiosity to a real genuine interest can happen over time for a few. Take things slow and maybe interest develops. Link to post Share on other sites
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