Kinks and asexuality

[DarthRiddler]

So, I wanted to ask a question I've had for a while now, almost since I discovered asexuality. It's always been the main thing that made me doubt I was ace.

Kinks, I have a lot of them, like a lot. Not really in a sexual way, they are thing that turn me on without actually resulting in me wanting to have sex, cause the idea still disgust me, I just like to see/hear/feel them. Physical pain, mine and other's (as long as they are not actually putting themselves in danger), sincere screams of pain or pure rage, manipulations, it's a weird sensation but I feel incredibly happy when I experience them. I don't like it when they actually result in sex (I'm talking about movies and stuff like that), but a kink is usually connected to a sexual practice so I've never known what to think about it. 

[RakshaTheCat]

Yep, there is a thread for that. Even fetlife has asexual groups. I'm not involved in a kink scene short of coming to few workshops when they were still happening, but there seem to be some asexual people there too. And even kinky sexuals seem to have no problem with "no sex kinks", so it's actually better than with vanilla people 😺