imjayhime Posted October 14, 2019 Share Posted October 14, 2019 I saw that a lot of people were doing this, so i thought iād introduce myself ^^ Ā You can call me Jay. Iām American, 23, cisĀ female, and I found out that Iām asexual in spring of last year. While i was dating my ex boyfriend, IĀ definitely saw a future with him and had strong feelings (i guess it was love), but i didnāt have the interest in sleeping with him..and didnāt even see myself doing it in the future. Up until last year, i was waiting till marriage, but i thought āsomething must be wrong with meā when the idea of having sex after marriage bothered me too. I did some research and came across thisĀ ace comic:Ā https://adriofthedead.tumblr.com/post/65540442968/okay-i-realize-this-hilariously-late-for Ā and it all made sense š® it feels nice knowing that thereās others like me and that iām not alone. Honestly, sometimes i feel like i wonāt find my special person and that sucks ācause iām a huge romantic..but i would prefer to be with an ace, so it could be hard (wish me luck ;;). If anyone has any ace dating advice, let me know.Ā Ā Thanks for reading! Hope we can get along!ļ¼ļ¼¾Ļļ¼¾ļ¼ Link to post Share on other sites
NickyTannock Posted October 14, 2019 Share Posted October 14, 2019 Welcome to AVEN! Ā I don't have any dating advice as I've never dated, but I wish you luck! Ā Also, it looks like that link leads to a retired blog, and that the blog owner has moved to here:Ā https://adrimakesart.tumblr.com/ Ā Incidentally, it is a tradition here to welcome new members by offering cake, and here's a "The Guardians of the Woods" cake (all edible), http://cakesdecor.com/cakes/170917-the-guardians-of-the-woods Link to post Share on other sites
Lichley Posted October 14, 2019 Share Posted October 14, 2019 Welcome! Yeah the original link doesnāt work anymore, but at least weāre can still find their page, thanks Ā Link to post Share on other sites
Sammy :) Posted October 16, 2019 Share Posted October 16, 2019 I'm also ace and a hopeless romantic. AlthoughĀ I have no dating advice as I've never dated,Ā I try to just have hope I will find someone who will be with me even though I'm ace. Stranger things have happened who knows!Ā You are very much not alone and I understand what you feel. If you want to talk feel free to message me! Heres a welcome cake:Ā Link to post Share on other sites
WilliamJJackson Posted October 16, 2019 Share Posted October 16, 2019 Howdy, all. What's new with you? Ā Link to post Share on other sites
imjayhime Posted October 16, 2019 Author Share Posted October 16, 2019 32 minutes ago, Sammy said: I'm also ace and a hopeless romantic. AlthoughĀ I have no dating advice as I've never dated,Ā I try to just have hope I will find someone who will be with me even though I'm ace. Stranger things have happened who knows!Ā You are very much not alone and I understand what you feel. If you want to talk feel free to message me! Thank you! I appreciate that š Link to post Share on other sites
asingularbraincell Posted October 16, 2019 Share Posted October 16, 2019 Hey, welcome!! Here's a penguin cake to celebrate!Ā Ā I unfortunately don't have any advice regarding dating, but it is so nice to meet you. I relate with you, girl! ā¤ļøĀ Link to post Share on other sites
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