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Attraction? Struggles


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AnxiouslyAsexual

I need some help lol. I really want to be able to like, kiss someone but I'm not really attracted to anyone I believe. But on the other hand, whenever I think of kissing someone, one person comes to mind but I don't really have any romantic attraction to her. I'm just being an overall confused bean 😅

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How would you describe the attraction as?

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AnxiouslyAsexual

I've had what I believe to be crushes on guys before and it doesn't feel like that. I don't get "butterflies" or feel any different when she touches me vs when other friends touch me. It seems like the attraction is platonic.

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5 minutes ago, AnxiouslyAsexual said:

I don't get "butterflies"

Many romantics do not get butterflies or other feelings stereotypically associated with romance in pop culture; most of romance is pop culture is wrong. The fact that you want to kiss someone sounds romantic to me, but you know yourself better than we random strangers on the internet do.

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AnxiouslyAsexual

True, true

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coelacanthiformes

romantic attraction is different for everyone and if u don't know what it is for u, that's totally okay. also welcome and here is some cake 🍰🍰🍰

 

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AnxiouslyAsexual

Thank you and the cake was delicious!

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