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4 minutes ago, CBC said:

I feel like there are at least a few guys I could ask.

If you strike out let me know.  I have a male-bodied, male-identifying friend I can ask for sure.

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1 hour ago, ryn2 said:

Dong sleep would be just flopping around limp, right?  That sounds restful. :)

and then being rigid periodically during the night, during REM stages…? that sounds unpleasant actually 😂

(I love a story about NPT where a wife was convinced her spouse was dreaming about other women all the time.)

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Lover says: It’s a membrane, not really a muscle. It doesn’t have the same nerve endings, so it’s not the same. It does not.

 

Then he said, “Your penis is not meat”.... 🤔

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😂 Yeah, I was quite confused. My husband and son walked in with some news, so I had to drop off at that cliff hanger. I’ll have to follow up later. 
 

🤔

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To continue, he said, “You know, your muscle is like your calf, your bi-ceps...that’s the meat, the muscle. Your penis doesn’t do anything!” 
 

That’s where I stopped him and said, “au contraire...”😂🤣😂

 

He says, “Nah, it just fills up. It’s a delivery mechanism. It doesn’t do any heavy lifting!”

 

So yeah, sometimes he’s entertaining as hell. He finished with, “So there you have it!” 🤷🏻‍♀️
 

😂

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He says a cock ring is simply decorative...🤷🏻‍♀️ haha

 

I followed on with, “Yeah, I much prefer French ticklers...” 😂

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1 hour ago, CBC said:

That's a quote to... stay stuck in one's mind. 😐

I....have never even heard this in my life 

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53 minutes ago, CBC said:

I thought cock rings were actual toys to increase pleasure? 🤷🏼‍♀️

Not exactly. The rings act as a form of restrictive agent so to speak whereby the circulation is kept tightly in the penis preventing the blodflow from going back into the regular circulatory system so that men can "last longer". Its usually advertised  im a more as a "for her" than "for him" sense.

 

Vibrating rings might be of some use to increase pleasure but thats a strech in itself. Honestly, having tried them, I would not advice any guy to do it. Im pretty sure you can cause some serious damage with it.

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1 hour ago, Traveler40 said:

“Your penis is not meat”.

Well, technically...  XD

 

It’s probably more that it’s difficult to cut off its blood supply accidentally.

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15 minutes ago, CBC said:

I assumed that did something to enhance the... sexual experience.

Well, kind of.  They help keep the person from going soft before it’s desirable to do so.

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15 minutes ago, CBC said:

My point was just that what Traveler posted would stick in my head.

LOL yes.  Every time he said “my penis” going forward I would feel compelled to add “is not meat!”

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I'm confused about how to think about my uh, own, whatever. I like that it's bigger? (What I'm alluding to is that the clitoris is anatomically analogous to the penis, and it grows as a result of hormonal transition.)

Aha! Apparently NCT is also a thing. And FTM guys can try using cock rings. Not sure I'll get there, but interesting – anyway – the point is, the analogy is very real, and maybe it helps how one thinks about dongs. :)

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1 minute ago, CBC said:

I guess in my mind all sexual enhancement... things... are toys? But yeah, I know they don't really do much otherwise.

Sometimes they take on a more toylike role in a kink setting but otherwise they are just mechanical viagra.  They don’t enhance pleasure, except in the sense of decreasing anxiety.

 

I suppose you could lump them in with strap-ons and the like... they let you provide your partner with something you couldn’t provide otherwise but don’t change your physical experience.

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4 minutes ago, CBC said:

I'd collapse in laughter every time and if the person was my partner they'd eventually reach the "Oh my god can you stop saying that!" stage.

Yes, exactly.  It would be hilarious to me long after it was... no longer funny.

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Just now, CBC said:

I wasn't sure if it increased sensitivity as well? Dunno, don't have a dick and never been with a partner using a cock ring.

I don’t have a dick but have been with partners who use them and am on the margins of the kink community...  I can’t speak from first-hand experience but have been told they generally don’t beyond what a typical erection would.

 

Others’ mileage may vary.

 

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What I should be doing:  chores

What I am doing:  serving as a cat bed and talking dicks on the interwebs with ceebs

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4 minutes ago, CBC said:

I wouldn't mind having one for a few days. I'm intrigued by the experience.

I always said that as a younger person.  I still wish I had one for going hiking.

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4 minutes ago, ryn2 said:

I always said that as a younger person.  I still wish I had one for going hiking.

haha, same, sadly my urethra isn't repositioning itself!

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10 minutes ago, CBC said:

They do seem useful for circumstances like that, yeah.

 

I'm always a bit confused why many guys are so worried about size. Maybe it's the way some women obsess over boob size? I feel like it's more a matter of... how you use it... rather than how gigantic it is. I don't think I'd want a massive willy if I was a guy, though.

Peer pressure and the "bigger is always better" requirement that has been established as a norm.

 

Have you ever noticed that in beauty pagents, small breasts automatically disqualify a woman for winning? Even people voice it as they vote. She can be smart, athletic and such but small boobs = not good.

 

Same with muscle competitions. If it somehow becomes known that a candidate is small, hes pretty much done in. Many people even laugh at the idea that a muscular man has a small penis.

 

And of course porn has a hand in all this as well sikce due to it, everyone (generalizing here) wants gigantic breasts and monsteous penises, even when having them would actually be counterproductive to sex.

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35 minutes ago, anisotrophic said:

haha, same, sadly my urethra isn't repositioning itself!

I know!  That’s such an unfair part of transitioning.

 

Yet again the AMABs have all the luck.  I gently tease my MTF friend that of course she got to start out with brand new boobs and feet that never wore heels at 35.

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28 minutes ago, Jade Cross said:

of course porn has a hand in all this as well sikce due to it, everyone (generalizing here) wants gigantic breasts and monsteous penises, even when having them would actually be counterproductive to sex.

Yeah, people take that as real and the ideal and don’t realize that large penises sometimes cause a partner discomfort  and natural large breasts are not round and porn-perky... and that both can be uncomfortable and limiting for their “owners” as well.

 

26 minutes ago, CBC said:

We're all sold lies about our bodies, regardless of sex/gender. It's annoying and kind of sad.

It sells product.  If everyone was happy with their bodies, that would be a marketing nightmare.

 

But, yes, sad for sure.

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*Leaves for a day. Returns. 3 point turns right back out*

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1 hour ago, Anthracite_Impreza said:

*Leaves for a day. Returns. 3 point turns right back out*

It’s okay, we’ve moved on to bemoaning the way poor body image is used as a marketing ploy.  :)

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16 hours ago, anisotrophic said:

Apparently NCT is also a thing. And FTM guys can try using cock rings.

Acronym dumb here and google wasn’t too helpful:

 

NCT - Nobody Cares Though or K-pop band?

FTM - Female to Male (I’m thinking correct here)
 

Totally don’t get the NCT in either case. 😬

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15 hours ago, ryn2 said:

I always said that as a younger person.  I still wish I had one for going hiking.

They have a great cup thing now for women, cuz you know, that convenience thing is the holy grail? Haha

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15 hours ago, CBC said:

I'm always a bit confused why many guys are so worried about size. Maybe it's the way some women obsess over boob size? I feel like it's more a matter of... how you use it... rather than how gigantic it is. I don't think I'd want a massive willy if I was a guy, though.

Totally agree on this one. It’s not the boat guys, it’s the motion of the ocean. 

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Last thought on the catch up going on here: Ceebs, WAY PERKY! What inspired the change to geo?  Nice, but bright....🙃

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1 hour ago, CBC said:

I imagine an actual micropenis presents technical problems... or a very large one (totally gonna google "macropenis" now, lol)... but from my understanding, anything relatively normal-sized can do the job if someone knows what they're doing.

Ron Jeremy actually cant get full pleasure out of sex cause he cant fully penetrate anyone due to his size being too long, so yeah... it is popular in porn but wouldn't be nice in practical purposes. Imagine having to constantly worry about stopping mid push so you dont hurt your partner... what a pain. 

 

 

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