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5 minutes ago, CBC said:

That's fair.

Regarding the grapefruit, I would not want to be touched with nails that long. Is that weird?

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5 minutes ago, InquisitivePhilosopher said:

Interesting thread. Thanks, everyone, for sharing your personal experiences.

 

(You meant for asexuals to read this, too, right? I hope I didn't accidently wander into what might've been meant to be some sort of private meeting/discussion for sexuals.)

 

 

Haha no, please do read it. 😛

 

1 minute ago, Snao van der Cone said:

Regarding the grapefruit, I would not want to be touched with nails that long. Is that weird?

Not weird. Scratches down there are owwy. 

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Just now, Serran said:

Not weird. Scratches down there are owwy. 

Okay, good. I mean, I know what they feel like, as I sometimes have long nails.

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3 minutes ago, Snao van der Cone said:

Regarding the grapefruit, I would not want to be touched with nails that long. Is that weird?

Not as weird as seeing that Rule34 has been applied even to fruit

 

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Just now, CBC said:

Lol no, I don't think so. That's one way you know the women in made-for-heterosexual-men lesbian porn aren't gay; they look like they just came from the nail salon and asked for something resembling owl talons.

I almost added to my reply to Serran that it looks like a marketing decision made by men who don't understand female sexuality all that well :P

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Just now, CBC said:

Lol no, I don't think so. That's one way you know the women in made-for-heterosexual-men lesbian porn aren't gay; they look like they just came from the nail salon and asked for something resembling owl talons.

I dont get how women who like the nails long do it. Mine are so short they barely exist. Longer are annoying and make doing anything difficult ! *grumble* 

 

TMI:

 

I told my wife to fix her nails before touching me again cause she let them grow too much and cut me. And hers weren't even that long.

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This might sound odd but while I cant stand long nails (get those damn things cut or file them away!) I have actually kind of a thing for the rings that are made to resemble claws or clawlike fingernails

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4 minutes ago, CBC said:

Which is pretty much all of them. :D

 

(Did I just say that? Oops. 🙃)

 

#itsajokeguys

My ex boyfriend got mad because he couldn't make me orgasm so I just started faking orgasms to get him to feel manly.  It was too much sex for me anyway.

 

Men are weird sometimes.  Not all men but some men are hella weird about these things.

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Just now, Kisa needs a coffee said:

My ex boyfriend got mad because he couldn't make me orgasm so I just started faking orgasms to get him to feel manly.  It was too much sex for me anyway.

 

Men are weird sometimes.  Not all men but some men are hella weird about these things.

Did you enjoy sex enough without orgasm that you would've wanted it on a fairly regular basis anyway?

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Just now, Snao van der Cone said:

Did you enjoy sex enough without orgasm that you would've wanted it on a fairly regular basis anyway?

We had different definitions of "regular".  I could go for once a month or so because we saw each other once a week and I don't want to have sex with somebody literally every time I see them.  But he was "once a week" which felt like "ohhhhh...greaat....here we goooo....agaiiiin....let's get this over with so we can watch Princess Bride"

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1 hour ago, skullery said:

I WANT GIRLS ON BREAD. 

Is this...

...vore?

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I'm sexual and I didn't feel sexual or romantic attraction until I was 18.

 

If asexuality awareness had existed when I had my puberty I think I would have wondered if I were that. (Two more decades and I can safely say I'm sexual!)

 

... but also I think it's worth noting I and many folks posting are/were cis women.

 

Lots of misconceptions arise from trying to map (stereotypical) male experiences of sexuality to women. These experiences are probably more unusual for men, but also exist.

 

(My sexuality has changed with T but it's only been a month or so, so far it's mostly just sad and confused, like I've lost my imagination and given up on sex. Hopefully just a phase.)

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22 minutes ago, Kisa needs a coffee said:

let's get this over with so we can watch Princess Bride

:lol: 

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I'm sexual but that whole thing where people's bodies randomly nag at them for sexual release in a very biologically-based sort of way (and this seems to be true for many asexuals as well) literally never happens to me.

Ironically, I'm pretty much asexual yet I often feel alienated from other asexuals for the exact same reason >_>

 

Even my spouse experiences libido, though not very much of one.  I have wondered if that will change when they start taking testosterone.  It didn't do jack shit with me, but I probably took way less than what a transitioning person would.

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27 minutes ago, Pan Ficto. (on hiatus?) said:

I don't get how they wipe their butts without scratching their butthole :o

I KNOW!!! Or, like, use any keypad or phone. Keyboard. Smartphone. Touch tone phone. I guess with some things they can use the nail if it's strong enough, but that won't work on touch devices.

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I'm sexual (albeit a gray one) but:

-I'm a 28 year old virgin and don't really care if I ever have sex.

-I think genitalia and naked people look gross.

-If I ever do have sex I'd only be willing to do PiV or hand stuff. Oral sex is definitely one of the grossest things imaginable in my opinion lol.

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sticked this thread

 

Iff, 

Moderator, sexual partners, friends & allies

 

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6 hours ago, CBC said:

Oh same, and in my case it's because I've basically been a nail-biter all my life. As a child, my mum used to try to bribe me to stop by promising me pretty nail polish colours, and I was like... no? I don't want to wear nail polish and I really love chewing my fingernails. 😂

I bite mine too. So does my grandmother. My wife hates it. 😛 But my nails feel uncomfortable to the point it drives me nuts if I let them grow. 

 

5 hours ago, Snao van der Cone said:

I KNOW!!! Or, like, use any keypad or phone. Keyboard. Smartphone. Touch tone phone. I guess with some things they can use the nail if it's strong enough, but that won't work on touch devices.

There is some tricky hand maneuver to use the meat of your finger vs the nail. Don't ask me how, no idea. Everyone says you get used to it though. I had fake nails done in an attempt to stop biting and ... I could barely type... 

 

5 hours ago, anisotrophic said:

I'm sexual and I didn't feel sexual or romantic attraction until I was 18

I didn't feel it until I was 30. At 25 I did think I was ace. 

 

6 hours ago, CBC said:

I feel like that's annoyingly common, ugh. Egos. Sigh.

Haha and thats one of the reasons I wondered about aceness... all my ex boyfriends were wanting me to orgasm and moan and all like they said their exes did. I was just utterly bored all the time during and annoyed at them wanting that. 

 

...  my wife doesn't want moaning and screaming, she knows if I have or haven't based on feeling my body react and she listened to what I liked til she found a guarantee and if I don't feel into it, we only do her. It's so much nicer than "Why aren't you moaning and writhing around" while ignoring everything I said I liked cause it wasnt sex based enough (I need kisses, caresses, holding, etc or I don't feel the emotional connection enough to enjoy it... they just ignored all that and kept trying bigger and bigger dildos til I refused, or new positions, or whatever other thing they .. saw in a porno I guess ? ). 

 

 

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5 hours ago, CBC said:

Oh same. I remember having a convo with my best friend about this when we were about 14, and she wondered how I could stand the feel of touching something with my actual fingertips and I was like, isn't it weird to touch something with your nails? 🤷🏼‍♀️

I'm like your friend. It really really upsets me to feel things with my fingertips. I also tend to get really weird about them and am always scrubbing them, and I feel like I tend to pull my fingers from my nails because I'm rubbing/scrubbing the nubs of my fingertips so much, and then they really hurt and sting. My nails are short right this second because I trimmed them last night and everything feels weird and anxiousy. 😎 

 

EDIT: Also can't break up weed for shit without nails! 

 

EDIT EDIT: I try not to take pictures of my hands because I know that inevitably someone will call me a bad lesbian. 🤷‍♀️

 

 

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38 minutes ago, skullery said:

EDIT EDIT: I try not to take pictures of my hands because I know that inevitably someone will call me a bad lesbian. 🤷‍♀️

Nah, you're more like a badass Lesbian, skulls. :cake:

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2 minutes ago, CBC said:

Also I literally never have to cut mine. 

Oh interesting. I used to try to adopt the nail biting habit, but my nails are absurdly strong so it hurts my teeth. Literally. 

 

My nails also attach much higher than other people's... So even when they're as short as I can possibly get them, they still have white on them. I think my bloodline is just less evolved. 😂

 

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1 hour ago, skullery said:

EDIT EDIT: I try not to take pictures of my hands because I know that inevitably someone will call me a bad lesbian. 🤷‍♀️

 

Have we had a conversation about lesbians and hand pics before, or am I having legitimate deja vu?

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