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if A woman is married and been in a sexual sexual relationship uncomfortably for a long time ( eight years together and three years married) how will her life change if she comes out as asexual and I embrace it with open arms? Will I lose her? 

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I think embracing and accepting her asexuality will mean a lot to her and help her accept herself. It also might help you understand her and her feelings about sex and maybe put less pressure on her (if that's an issue), which might change her life in a positive way. But you need to figure out how you feel about living in a sexless (or sex-infrequent) marriage. If you love each other and your relationship is otherwise okay and you can agree on a compromise about sex, then I see no reason why this would mean the end of the marriage.

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Her orientation doesn't mean she doesn't love and care for you.  I'm not sure how this would make her feel any different.  If anything, you being accepting and supportive is a positive thing.

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