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BlakeTheNightowl~

Okay so I was about 12 when this happened I was at a friend’s house and we were just watching tv then she changes the channel to Adult Porn and I just did not see anything exciting about it so I tell her to turn it off and she’s like “ oh no not going to “ and I’m there just like having anxiety and a panic attack and what not so Now that I’m older is this like a traumatic thing or just me overreacting cause every time a sex scene pops up I get terrified / anxiety / disgusted / (I skip the scenes ) by it so idk does anybody else feel like this ? 

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AceMissBehaving

It’s within the realm of possibility the two things are linked 

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BlakeTheNightowl~
5 minutes ago, AceMissBehaving said:

It’s within the realm of possibility the two things are linked 

Ah thank you for clearing that 🙌

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BlakeTheNightowl~

I honestly thought it was just me being silly after that happened years ago.. 

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AceMissBehaving
10 minutes ago, Blake23 said:

I honestly thought it was just me being silly after that happened years ago.. 

The body holds on to stuff in weird ways. 

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BlakeTheNightowl~

yeah it does that's for sure ! 

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NickyTannock

I've moved this thread from 'Open Mic' to 'The Gray Area, Sex and Related Discussions'.
 
Michael Tannock,
Open Mic moderator and Questions about Asexuality Co-moderator.

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So it could be that you have anxiety at seeing porn/sex scenes now because of the experience when you were a kid, and it could also be that you were so upset about it then because of being ace. Both could even be true. 

 

I don't watch much television but if I get to a longish explicit scene in a book I skip it (or skim if I think there might be a plot point). It doesn't make me anxious, just annoyed, but that comes the ace.

 

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BlakeTheNightowl~
22 minutes ago, firebird8 said:

So it could be that you have anxiety at seeing porn/sex scenes now because of the experience when you were a kid, and it could also be that you were so upset about it then because of being ace. Both could even be true. 

 

I don't watch much television but if I get to a longish explicit scene in a book I skip it (or skim if I think there might be a plot point). It doesn't make me anxious, just annoyed, but that comes the ace.

 

Yeah it’s all 3 tbh oh yeah I totally get that I feel ya on that ! Oh yeah totally! 

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