SilverDragon Posted July 14, 2019 Share Posted July 14, 2019 I've pretty much decided that I'm asexual, but I have question. Are there different level of anesthetic attraction? I was reading Incredibly Ace moments( So fun to read, and a rather teaching), and I was just curious because some users would compare attraction to admiring art or something. I think I get strongly attracted. Like instead of just nodding and looking at a painting and thinking it's nice, I would be more like... highly admiring them and thinking more romantically. It doesn't feel sexual in anyway, but like happening to find an excellent dish and wanting more. I would be interested in a romantic relationship, but maybe at another time because i'm in one/ not feeling it right now. I don't always feel strongly, sometimes I'll be eh. Well, mostly eh, some I think are pretty, but when I'm attracted I really can tell the difference. Or maybe I was just misreading what they said. Point is, I can't tell. (Also, I hope this is the right place to post this. I think it is.) Link to post Share on other sites
NickyTannock Posted July 14, 2019 Share Posted July 14, 2019 I've moved this thread from 'Questions about Asexuality' to 'Romantic and Aromantic Orientations'. Michael Tannock, Open Mic moderator and Questions about Asexuality Co-moderator. Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Posted July 14, 2019 Share Posted July 14, 2019 Well, some people got a nice haircut and some people look like divine beings from another world. I don't see how it's odd to react a bit differently to seeing these different types of pretty, I mean, the later is pretty distracting, the first I hardly pay attention to. If you feel romantic attraction on top of it that's a thing in itself. Link to post Share on other sites
Anthracite_Impreza Posted July 14, 2019 Share Posted July 14, 2019 Yeah, I get really strong aesthetic attraction, if you wanna call it that. I've had to fan myself from pure looks before A crush is a different matter entirely. Link to post Share on other sites
Evren Posted July 14, 2019 Share Posted July 14, 2019 44 minutes ago, CBC said: Not sure you've got the right word there... (Please don't chloroform your dates.) But my date was a ... knock-out. Link to post Share on other sites
SilverDragon Posted July 14, 2019 Author Share Posted July 14, 2019 Facepalm And I call myself a writer. I meant aesthetic attraction. (I feel like an idiot.) Sorry, i'm new here. I didn't know about this forum (normally check the other ones), so i'll read up the FAQ before posting anything. Link to post Share on other sites
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