Philip027 Posted July 29, 2019 Share Posted July 29, 2019 13 hours ago, CBC said: That sounds incredibly unhealthy. That's not the sort of mindset that goes with a healthy psychology. We're not supposed to want to be "dead" to everyone. Maybe not dead, but I sure don't want to be sexually attractive to anybody either. 2 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
RosyLeo Posted July 29, 2019 Share Posted July 29, 2019 I'm still ascertaining my asexuality and the types of attraction I feel, but I thought I'd chime in. I can relate to the people who said they recognize someone is beautiful or handsome or "attractive" but that's as far as it gets. In the 2 cases I can remember where the person was someone I saw every day and would occasionally talk to, I desired to be friends with them. Dunno what that is called. I've seen physically fit guys naked in the locker room shower but the only desire I felt is to work out more to be more physically fit myself... 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
InvisibleSquid Posted July 29, 2019 Share Posted July 29, 2019 3 hours ago, t. Ro said: In the 2 cases I can remember where the person was someone I saw every day and would occasionally talk to, I desired to be friends with them. Dunno what that is called. I think that would just be platonic attraction...? Like maybe you have what we refer to as a “squish” on these people? 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
RosyLeo Posted July 29, 2019 Share Posted July 29, 2019 5 minutes ago, Ace of J said: I think that would just be platonic attraction...? Like maybe you have what we refer to as a “squish” on these people? Sounds about right. In my intro, someone said I should look into squishes and also QPRs since I mentioned I had a non-sexual, non-romantic friend with whom I used to cuddle. 2 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
R_1 Posted July 29, 2019 Share Posted July 29, 2019 [Never mind] Quote Link to post Share on other sites
RosyLeo Posted July 30, 2019 Share Posted July 30, 2019 7 hours ago, Telecaster68 said: Call me a wild eyed maverick, but my first choice of word would be' friend'. 7 hours ago, CBC said: What on earth. Are we redefining friendship on AVEN now too? I suppose for me it is significant because I previously mistook it for a different type of attraction. 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
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