Anony-moose Posted June 16, 2019 Share Posted June 16, 2019 Wondering if that's a normal thing to wonder about even if it's not necessarily something you would do, or like/dislike? Like, is it normal to have minor gay thoughts, like "what if we kissed" or "what if we held hands" or "what if we were dating" or "what if hfjdiebfdi", all in the "what if" way but then be very neutral about those thoughts? Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Posted June 16, 2019 Share Posted June 16, 2019 There are so many things that I wonder, which I'd never would do. Thoughts aren't bad. Right? Link to post Share on other sites
sugarmouse Posted June 16, 2019 Share Posted June 16, 2019 sometimes we might just want that closeness/feel curious about being with someone, and if it's a person we already know and trust like a friend, it's perhaps natural to wonder? Link to post Share on other sites
RoseGoesToYale Posted June 16, 2019 Share Posted June 16, 2019 I think it's perfectly normal. Imagining something doesn't mean having to act on it. I've wondered about kissing/cuddling with friends of all different genders, it just seems to be a part of exploring individual relationships. Link to post Share on other sites
BeakLove Posted June 16, 2019 Share Posted June 16, 2019 1 hour ago, Anony-moose said: Wondering if that's a normal thing to wonder about even if it's not necessarily something you would do, or like/dislike? Like, is it normal to have minor gay thoughts, like "what if we kissed" or "what if we held hands" or "what if we were dating" or "what if hfjdiebfdi", all in the "what if" way but then be very neutral about those thoughts? You're probably super gay!!!!! 😊 Is it bugging you to have those thoughts, if not,then just go with the flow. Our brains are odd sometimes. Link to post Share on other sites
verymelancholic Posted June 16, 2019 Share Posted June 16, 2019 There is absolutely nothing wrong with that. In fact, go for it, if that’s your thing, and if they want it too. Link to post Share on other sites
Homer Posted June 16, 2019 Share Posted June 16, 2019 No matter if it's "normal" (I guess you mean something like "common"?) or not, the thoughts seem to be present, so... as long as you're okay with that, everything is fine. I can say that I have tried to imagine stuff like that, but it just doesn't work for me. I can't imagine situations like that with a friend. It's like a fish and a bike, they just don't go together at all. Link to post Share on other sites
Anony-moose Posted June 16, 2019 Author Share Posted June 16, 2019 5 hours ago, Homer said: No matter if it's "normal" (I guess you mean something like "common"?) or not, the thoughts seem to be present, so... as long as you're okay with that, everything is fine. I can say that I have tried to imagine stuff like that, but it just doesn't work for me. I can't imagine situations like that with a friend. It's like a fish and a bike, they just don't go together at all. Yeah, that's what I meant- as in how common is it. Just out of curiosity. They're nothing I would necessarily want to act on though lol Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Posted June 16, 2019 Share Posted June 16, 2019 Its totally normal and perfectly common lots of people have gay fantasies. Or wonder what kissing someone they are close to would be like, your fine. I wouldn't stress too much about it especially if you're not planning on acting on it. Link to post Share on other sites
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