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what does it mean to feel horny? What does it feel like to be horny if you are sexual? can an asexual feel horny? 

 

is being horny different than being aroused? 

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To me, “horny” is a state of mental arousal whether random or aimed at a person and you feel an incredible urge to release yourself. For whether it can be an asexual thing, it depends on if you desire to have that release through masturbation or through sex.  Asexuals often describe an “itch” giving them the need to masturbate which is what I believe is the state of being horny. With this, sometimes comes fantasies. Many asexuals don’t fantasize, some fantasize about situations such as what their future will be like, some do fantasize about sexual situations but only of other people excluding themselves from any of the sexual acts entirely. If being horny resulted in you fantasizing about doing sexual acts with someone, I more than likely wouldn’t say you were asexual

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On 6/10/2019 at 11:47 PM, reimagine stardust said:

what does it mean to feel horny? What does it feel like to be horny if you are sexual? can an asexual feel horny? 

 

is being horny different than being aroused? 

For me (a sexual person) when I'm horny I'm way more into the fun around sex rather than being aroused. The horny part comes when I spend time fantasizing about my partner at night or send her sexy notes to let off some of that energy. Basically, when she is there I want to touch her, kiss her, flirt with her etc. The arousal part comes in more around actual sex for me, after the general horny/sexy feeling turns into something real. My Ace girlfriend doesn't get horny but she does get aroused during actual sex. Hope this helps ❤️

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18 minutes ago, DavidAttenboroughFan said:

For me (a sexual person) when I'm horny I'm way more into the fun around sex rather than being aroused. The horny part comes when I spend time fantasizing about my partner at night or send her sexy notes to let off some of that energy. Basically, when she is there I want to touch her, kiss her, flirt with her etc. The arousal part comes in more around actual sex for me, after the general horny/sexy feeling turns into something real. My Ace girlfriend doesn't get horny but she does get aroused during actual sex. Hope this helps ❤️

thanks. I'm not sure if I really get this way myself. I kind of do, but not to the extent you describe it.

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WARNING, this gets a bit graphic . I’m sexual, and to me, horny is something I get by fantasizing, reading something sexy, watching porn etc. I can’t think of anything else when I’m really really horny, I just have to get off in order to still my urges. Horniness and arousal are kind of the same, to me.. When I’m aroused my entire body gets tingly, my lower stomach feels like electricity and the slightest touch is relieving. Just the thought of something sexy can make me want to moan because the rush I get in my stomach is aching but in a good way.. I feel pressure down the nether regions and I really can’t concentrate on anything else while I’m in that mental state, depending on HOW horny I am of course. 

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