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On ‎6‎/‎4‎/‎2019 at 1:39 AM, CBC said:

I suspect that's one major factor in the invention of all these different labels -- people experience something and it either is or isn't like how other people immediately surrounding them experience it. 

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On ‎6‎/‎4‎/‎2019 at 12:42 AM, Anthracite_Impreza said:

the bravery of a horny Pomeranian trying to hump a lion 

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Skycaptain

Sexuality is a spectrum, do there's a big variation amongst the population. Some desire multiple partners, some monogamy, same as some want sex many times a day, daily, a few times a week or whatever, there are no absolutes 

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10 hours ago, Anthracite_Impreza said:

For reals though I did used to be shocked people tended to do it multiple times a week. At the time I didn't even know AFABs had 3 holes though, so ya know.

...what?  Where?

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Living with a nympho would probably be a nightmare for asexuals.

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On ‎6‎/‎4‎/‎2019 at 9:24 AM, verymelancholic said:

Living with a nympho would probably be a nightmare for asexuals.

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2 hours ago, Sally said:

...what?  Where?

Butt, pee and V.

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On ‎6‎/‎4‎/‎2019 at 11:51 AM, Anthracite_Impreza said:

Butt, pee and V.

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I feel I'm approaching unknown and repulsive ground *drives away quickly*

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1 hour ago, Anthracite_Impreza said:

Butt, pee and V.

And of course the fourth one that people of all sexes have, the vestigial cloaca. 

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37 minutes ago, Snao Cone said:

And of course the fourth one that people of all sexes have, the vestigial cloaca. 

*files away under The More You Know*

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1 hour ago, Anthracite_Impreza said:

*files away under The More You Know*

Better file that under "Snao Making Shit Up" just to be safe. :P

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On ‎6‎/‎4‎/‎2019 at 2:48 PM, Snao Cone said:

Better file that under "Snao Making Shit Up" just to be safe. :P

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On 6/3/2019 at 10:30 PM, GrayJay said:

Thanks for sharing, I will give that a read soon. 🤗 

 

 

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On ‎6‎/‎4‎/‎2019 at 5:10 PM, humantoafault said:

Whoops, wrong thread

 

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On 6/4/2019 at 2:58 PM, Marlow1 said:

I have just remembered this video. The person is Asexual and cannot visualise in the minds eye. She is also not attracted to pornography

 

 

Very fascinating video. I, too, look forward to the day where asexuality (among pansexuality, polysexuality and other identities out there) will be just as well-known as things like heterosexuality and homosexuality.

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On 6/5/2019 at 1:49 AM, The Angel of Eternity said:

Very fascinating video. I, too, look forward to the day where asexuality (among pansexuality, polysexuality and other identity out there) will be just as well-known as things like heterosexuality and homosexuality.

Yes indeed, the current models are too narrow and there are a lot of people struggling to understand themselves because of a lack of information and research

 

As I have mentioned in the past until I found out that other people can visualise and hear themselves speaking there was no way for me to know that I am wired up differently

 

When I was young and did not experience attraction, I just thought that I had not met the right person. When my friends talked endlessly about their sex lives I assumed they were exaggerating, boys talk, I would call it

 

When I met my now wife there was a long list of events that had us keep running into each other, plus my brother who knew my memory was terrible was secretly working as a matchmaker. I realise that was a cheat but without his assistance I really do not think that I could have ever become attracted to anybody. Both my wife and I are glad he helped, and we also appreciate the help the Therapist gave us when I lost attraction, following the brain hemorrhage 

 

This young lass here has Aphantasia. She cannot visually fantasize and she also does not experience attraction very easily. She has spoken to others with Aphantasia that are saying they are not on the Asexual Spectrum but the folk that I have spoken say they are. The poll I posted earlier suggests there could be a link. I would like to see some research done. They can actually pick up Aphantasia on brain scans

 

https://theestablishment.co/i-have-no-sexual-fantasies-due-to-aphantasia/index.html

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On 6/6/2019 at 2:35 PM, Marlow1 said:

When I was young and did not experience attraction, I just thought that I had not met the right person. When my friends talked endlessly about their sex lives I assumed they were exaggerating, boys talk, I would call it

In middle school, junior high and part of high school I felt that those who were in romantic relationships were "just kidding" (my words). I guess one could say I felt confused about the idea of people so young being attracted to one another in this way. It wasn't until later on in high school that I realized that they were, indeed, serious.

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