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if demisexuality is so common, why do my experiences strongly contradict that?


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Celyn: The Lutening

@CelesteAdAstra and @Snao Cone - can't speak for all demis but you absolutely nailed it IMO.

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verymelancholic

I’m a mix of ace and demi, so for me, demisexual is only feeling sexual attraction to some degree towards one specific person only if the relationship has developed enough that we are already very close. If I am attracted to someone it’s more likely sensual, aesthetic, platonic or romantic. I do crave sex sometimes though. Sexual attraction for me takes months to develop and only to very specific people I already am close to. Until then, I am technically and functionally fully ace. It’s a long process, but it’s worth it.

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On 6/3/2019 at 10:06 PM, verymelancholic said:

 

 

 

We have been together for 30 years

 

 

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