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But do you want to lick it? - how I figured out I was ace

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ryn2
1 hour ago, Skycaptain said:

Spoilered because super crude

I would reword the lead-in to “not even this enough to get an asexual...”

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Nowhere Girl
7 hours ago, ryn2 said:

I’ve bitten my cats but would never lick one.  Ew.  So much hair.

I have seen a friend lick her dog's tongue. Eeeeeeeeew!!! 🤢

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Crazycrazycultist
22 hours ago, ByeYall! said:

My poor child, who tortured you with cake icing as a child? I just don't understand how things could have turned out otherwise unless you were somehow made to hate it.😁 I'm kidding of course.

Being tortured with cake icing sounds like something someone would have to see to believe.

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Crazycrazycultist
18 hours ago, The Terrible Travis said:

i also tried the licking test and i concluded that i am sexually attracted to ice cream 

Ice cream sexual?

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ryn2
17 minutes ago, Nowhere Girl said:

I have seen a friend lick her dog's tongue. Eeeeeeeeew!!! 🤢

Ew!  I’ve licked my cat’s nose but only by accident and we were both displeased.

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ryn2
19 minutes ago, Crazycrazycultist said:

Being tortured with cake icing sounds like something someone would have to see to believe.

My mother told me she used to pester her mother mid-project for samples of buttercream frosting (as a child), so one time her mother forced her to eat an entire recipe of it until she was sick.  That might qualify!

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Dreamsexual

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ryn2

Nope, no air quotes.  Actual inadvertent collision, normally caused by me turning to look at something while talking or by the cat making a play for my bite of food.

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Aimeendfire

I bite my cats ears all the time...is that not what everyone does ? :P

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ryn2
1 minute ago, Aimeendfire said:

I bite my cats ears all the time...is that not what everyone does ? :P

I can’t say I never have...

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Dreamsexual
On 22 May 2019 at 10:13 PM, ryn2 said:

Nope, no air quotes.  Actual inadvertent collision, normally caused by me turning to look at something while talking or by the cat making a play for my bite of food.

 

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ryn2

Believe what you want.  *shrugs*  I’m the last person who’d be licking anything at all on purpose.

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Dreamsexual
On 22 May 2019 at 10:22 PM, ryn2 said:

Believe what you want.  *shrugs*  I’m the last person who’d be licking anything at all on purpose.

 

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Crazycrazycultist
33 minutes ago, ryn2 said:

My mother told me she used to pester her mother mid-project for samples of buttercream frosting (as a child), so one time her mother forced her to eat an entire recipe of it until she was sick.  That might qualify!

Wow!

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Janus DarkFox

I've never connected the mouth toward anything sexual, most don't I don't think and not exactly connected to sexuality.  Mouth to genitals isn't my thing either.

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Dreamsexual
On 22 May 2019 at 11:27 PM, Janus DarkFox said:

most don't I

 

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Fluffy Femme Guy

Licking someone? No.

But...
( Spoilered for... kink(?) )

Spoiler

I think I might be into (playful) biting/nibbling though.

 

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Dreamsexual
On 23 May 2019 at 6:44 AM, Fluffy Femme Guy said:

Licking someone? No.

But...
( Spoilered for... kink(?) )

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I think I might be into (playful) biting/nibbling though.

 

 

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Jade Cross
On 5/21/2019 at 7:19 PM, Firefly8 said:

 

how-many-licks-does-it-take-toget-to-the

My soul is an endless abbyss of darkness? 

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Jade Cross

*Buys tootsie roll pop, comes back to thread, reads thread, looks at tootsie roll pop, proceeds to hammer pop, eats pieces* Hmm I guess it never did have to take any licks. The owl lied to me!

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Skycaptain

How lickeing are we not likeing :P

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Dreamsexual
On 23 May 2019 at 4:07 PM, Skycaptain said:

How lickeing are we not likeing :P

 

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Fluffy Femme Guy

I once actually tried to tally off 'how many licks'.
I was in middle school at the time and literally at school at the time, so I started the task and then wrapped the lollypop with intent to continue later.
I somehow misplaced it and never tried again.

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Fluffy Femme Guy
21 hours ago, Nowhere Girl said:

I have seen a friend lick her dog's tongue. Eeeeeeeeew!!! 🤢

I'm going to ignore the sensation that just crawled up my spine.

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Laplace

I’d have to have a really important incentive to lick anything other than food. And even though pets are fun, I still wash myself whenever a dog or cat licks me.

 

Also obligatory JoJo gif cause it’s impossible not to mentally visualize this scene now whenever licking is mentioned:

”This is the taste of a liar, Giorno Giovanna!”

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Aimeendfire
12 minutes ago, Laplace said:

I’d have to have a really important incentive to lick anything other than food. And even though pets are fun, I still wash myself whenever a dog or cat licks me.

 

Also obligatory JoJo gif cause it’s impossible not to mentally visualize this scene now whenever licking is mentioned:

”This is the taste of a liar, Giorno Giovanna!”

 

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Omg that’s disturbing 

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Fluffy Femme Guy
59 minutes ago, Aimeendfire said:

Omg that’s disturbing 

It's called "JoJo's Bizarre Adventure" for a reason.
To be fair it's usually just weird/funny but there's some potentially squicky stuff here and there.

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Dreamsexual
On 24 May 2019 at 2:03 AM, Aimeendfire said:

Omg that’s disturbing 

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Blissful_Sins
On 5/21/2019 at 11:34 PM, Nodel said:

Trying to figure out my sexuality has been tough mostly because how the heck do you know you don’t feel something. If you’ve never felt sexually attraction how do you know to separate it from aesthetic attraction?

 

I was wrestling with this very idea while I was at the beach not that long ago and came to a conclusion. You ask yourself one simple question: “Do you want to lick it?”

 

I’m a sculptor. And spend a lot of time looking at peoples bodies and admiring their form. (Aesthetic attraction) And for the longest time I thought that was sexual attraction. 

 

So I was trying to figure out the difference at the beach. Looking at lots of pretty people in very little clothing. And for every person I was admiring I asked myself if I wanted to lick whatever body part of theirs I was admiring. 

 

The answer was always a quick and definite NO!

 

No matter how pretty they were that wasn’t the type of interaction I wanted. Thinking “oh wow they’re beautiful!” Isn’t the same as sexual attraction and it’s taken me way too long to figure that out. 

You have assured me, I am asexual, without checking people out next Sunday when I go to the beach and question if I'll lick a body part it's a definite no oop-

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