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Aromantic demisexual?


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I'm bisexual. However, I will only have sex with someone if I have a romantic relationship first. And I don't want a relationship. That could change idk. I consider myself as asexual. I don't want people pointing at a man or woman and saying "Look, isn't he/she hot?" Like I don't care if that person is hot or not..

 

What is the right term to describe this lol? Also I don't think I can be as romantically attracted to a man as I could with a woman. 

 

I'm a male btw. Damn this is confusing as hell. I just want to know so I can come out to my family. I've thought I was straight, gay, asexual, bisexual.. It goes round in circles and it's like I have the most confusing sexuality card given..

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The best I could describe it is greyhetero-aromantic demisexual .. But I prefer to just say aromantic demisexual.. 

 

I rarely watch porn but when I do it's either gay, lesbian, straight, men masturbating or women masturbating.. Sorry if that's TMI

 

So don't I have to be not find people attractive to be demisexual unless I have a romantic relationship? Would I then be aromantic pansexual? Idk

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NickyTannock

@Sparked Welcome to AVEN!

 

Well, the Demi- part means you form the attraction after you've formed an emotional bond, but that needn't be a romantic bond.

So you could be a Demi-Hetero-Romantic Demisexual.

 

Incidentally, it is a tradition here to welcome new members by offering cake, and here's a Jamie Oliver Chocolate Celebration Cake,

jamie-oliver-2014-chocolate-celebration-

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Thanks for the welcome. I came out to my friends and family on facebook. I'm pretty sure they already know because I keep saying that I don't want a gf. I don't want a bf either so they already know that lol..

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