Folo Posted February 18, 2019 Share Posted February 18, 2019 man i got mad girls right... but, I have literally no intentions on sex. It really sucks. A lot. I had sex a few times but it never just felt good I don’t know how to explain it. But what I don’t understand is that I can get it up at a moments notice but, sex just doesn’t interest me at all. It’s weird idk someone help Quote Link to post Share on other sites
gisiebob Posted February 18, 2019 Share Posted February 18, 2019 help with what? society putting something on a pillar that you just don't care about? if your god is "having chicks" and you feel like you have lost your faith maybe you should take a good look at what you are praying to Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Salmiakki Posted February 18, 2019 Share Posted February 18, 2019 7 minutes ago, gisiebob said: if your god is "having chicks" and you feel like you have lost your faith maybe you should take a good look at what you are praying to What are you talking about? The op never mentioned God 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
gisiebob Posted February 18, 2019 Share Posted February 18, 2019 1 minute ago, Salmiakki said: What are you talking about? The op never mentioned God I never mentioned yer god either =^,^= 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
ChillaKilla Posted February 18, 2019 Share Posted February 18, 2019 14 minutes ago, Salmiakki said: What are you talking about? The op never mentioned God It's a metaphor 2 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Salmiakki Posted February 18, 2019 Share Posted February 18, 2019 51 minutes ago, ChillaKilla said: It's a metaphor What does it mean? Quote Link to post Share on other sites
gisiebob Posted February 18, 2019 Share Posted February 18, 2019 32 minutes ago, Salmiakki said: What does it mean? no, I should be nicer. having "mad girls" is assumed to be a desirable thing in life to be devoted to, as one would devote themselves to religion. but in this case the purpose of having those "mad girls" is lost, as the prophesied "holy land" doesn't materialize, damaging your faith. the hollowing of having them "mad girls" might lead you then to question why getting 'mad girls' is prayed for. or what you could devote your life to that would give you what you want. 2 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Salmiakki Posted February 19, 2019 Share Posted February 19, 2019 6 hours ago, gisiebob said: no, I should be nicer. having "mad girls" is assumed to be a desirable thing in life to be devoted to, as one would devote themselves to religion. but in this case the purpose of having those "mad girls" is lost, as the prophesied "holy land" doesn't materialize, damaging your faith. the hollowing of having them "mad girls" might lead you then to question why getting 'mad girls' is prayed for. or what you could devote your life to that would give you what you want. I'm not sure if I still completely understand it but thank you for explaining 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Folo Posted February 19, 2019 Author Share Posted February 19, 2019 1 hour ago, Salmiakki said: I'm not sure if I still completely understand it but thank you for explaining I’m lost LMFAO 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Anonymous123456 Posted February 19, 2019 Share Posted February 19, 2019 (edited) As I’m English I presume that by ‘mad girls’ you mean lots of girls rather than girls who are insane? Just thought that might be an important clarification for anyone who wants to answer this query. Edit: Actually I think the phrase ‘bare girls’ means lots of girls rather than ‘mad girls’. I’ll show myself out. Edited February 19, 2019 by grigor1860 Error 2 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
AmbassadorSquid Posted February 20, 2019 Share Posted February 20, 2019 On 2/18/2019 at 11:15 AM, gisiebob said: help with what? society putting something on a pillar that you just don't care about? if your god is "having chicks" and you feel like you have lost your faith maybe you should take a good look at what you are praying to Lemme give this a shot: Society puts pressure on men to "get mad girls". The standard is the more women you have who want you, the better and more desirable you are. But, you don't want that. You're not interested in sex. So, you have to rethink the standards that society has put up and that you compare yourself to. You don't have to play the game of gaining women's attention if you don't actually want it. 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Philip027 Posted February 20, 2019 Share Posted February 20, 2019 This is quite possibly the most confusing thread I've ever seen on this site, and I've been here for a pretty long time. 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Chimeric Posted February 21, 2019 Share Posted February 21, 2019 On 2/19/2019 at 10:08 AM, grigor1860 said: Edit: Actually I think the phrase ‘bare girls’ means lots of girls rather than ‘mad girls’. I’ll show myself out. In American slang, "mad girls" does indeed mean "a lot of girls." x) This sounds like a whole lotta humblebragging, to me. 🙃 If you have no intention on having sex, don't have it. If the amount of female attention is ohmygodjusttoomuch, stop flirting and go hang out with your dudes for a while. =] Or, conversely, if you really just want to hang out with these fine, fine ladies without worrying about what's going to be expected of you - deep breath, that's normal, it's gonna be okay. You have all the power in the world to decide who you do and don't have sex with, now and forever. This may seem like silly advice but just enjoy your friendships with them and try not to get your panties in a bunch. And... do try to make sure they're friendships, and not tokens you're collecting. =] 2 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Jetsun Milarepa Posted February 23, 2019 Share Posted February 23, 2019 ...living in a gangsta's paradise.... Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Hermit Advocate Posted February 26, 2019 Share Posted February 26, 2019 What? 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Mrs Posted February 27, 2019 Share Posted February 27, 2019 I’ve only been here a few weeks but it’s become evident that some people come here just to mess with us. 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
blanked_2 Posted February 27, 2019 Share Posted February 27, 2019 @Salmiakki Its basically a statement that he doesn't have to change his sexual attraction, but instead try to stop holding having sex with women as something he should aim for. He doesn'y have to have sex to have a worth, so he needs to learn to accept that of himself. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
blanked_2 Posted February 27, 2019 Share Posted February 27, 2019 Hey @Folo I'm sorry your question seems to have been dismissed amongst all this confusion. I know how wrong it feels to admit that you aren't interested in something we've grown up to learn is the 'pinnacle' of a relationship. You learn you should only have sex with people you trust, who you truly care about. Some cultures teach no sex before marriage. Some define marriage as having sex, or only accept a marriage once it is consummated. This makes us place it on a pedestal. It's made to feel special, like a goal. But you don't have to have sex to have worth, or to have a meaningful relationship. You need to try and accept yourself. There is nothing wrong with your lack of desire for sex. And I understand how you feel. You don't have to feel broken, especially since you have explained that you experience fully functional arousal, so there is nothing wrong with you. Everyone's sexual orientation and drive varies, don't beat yourself up over it Quote Link to post Share on other sites
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