The furthest you have been

[Parth]

What is the furthest you've been sex-wise with another person? (as of the day you vote of course)

I have been to the point of playing around. But I could not go any further.

(also include hugs with holding hands)

[Manathane]

I don't get it... for "had sex", do we have to have done all those things in order to select that option? Or are those just examples of things we might have done?

[Jesh]

I don't get it... for "had sex", do we have to have done all those things in order to select that option? Or are those just examples of things we might have done?

that confused me, too, but I think it's the latter.

[Parth]

I don't get it... for "had sex", do we have to have done all those things in order to select that option? Or are those just examples of things we might have done?

Sorry. What I mean is doing any one of the things that are considered sex.

[Nightmare]

I've talked to people, that's about it though. I'm a pretty lame sexual :)

[Brodertun]

i've had sex. Maybe 5 times over two days. it wasn't all that great.

[Shockwave]

I've experimented with sexual acts such as oral and manual stimulation but not gone as far as penetration. It was rather disappointing. I don't see why people obsess about it so much.

[Fel]

I've had the opportunity to be a member of the last option many times, but I just could never get myself to take that step. I usually didn't even want to be "playing" around with the person, but I did it for the their sake...

That was before I knew about asexuality. I left those relationships, of course.

Cool thread.

[borrowedTime]

I'm 'questioning', so I'm not sure which box I can tick.

But I'm definitely "haven't done anything with another".

[Hallucigenia]

Hmm - can you clarify what you mean by "playing around"?

[Charlieee]

so I'm not sure which box I can tick.

Eeny Meeny Miney Mo! :D

For me... asexual and holding hands

[Parth]

Hmm - can you clarify what you mean by "playing around"?

Like, touching, general foreplay activity, licking chocolate from bodies, that kind of thing.

[Manathane]

I don't get it... for "had sex", do we have to have done all those things in order to select that option? Or are those just examples of things we might have done?

Sorry. What I mean is doing any one of the things that are considered sex.

Thank you for clarifying. I have picked the correct choice. :)

[Apophyllite]

I'm 'questioning', so I'm not sure which box I can tick.

But I'm definitely "haven't done anything with another".

same here

[funaladanaly]

I voted for hold hands because I definitely haven't made out with anyone. The guy I'm dating kissed me one day on the lips, and I let him, but I hated it and we haven't done that since. When I say kiss on the lips, I mean for like one second then pull away. Ewwww, it really was disgusting.

I actually don't like holding hands either, but have done that to make him sorta feel better and to show that I was trying to work on the physical thing. I've decided that I just can't do it. I tried, and I just can't get myself to want to touch him too much. Maybe its him, maybe its all guys, I don't know, but I don't like the touching thing too much. I've decided next week or the week after I'm going to tell him that the type of relationship we are seeking requires intimacy, and I just unfortunately couldn't ever become comfortable with it. I hope we'll still be able to be friends. He has been friends with past ex girlfriends, so maybe he'll be my friend too.

[UpsideRight]

Faked it, I was trying to be "normal". Much happier now, not having.

[summerbreeze]

Voted "asexual- have never done anything with another."

Goody Two Shoes.

If a relationship were possible, holding hands once in a while or hugging or even a peck on the cheek might not seem bad- at least at times, I seem to change my mind every minute. :roll:

Though my aversion to most of these things (even non-sexual) still stands, at times the possibility doesn't seem all that bad. But there is a wide gap between the theoretical and the real.

[dicerotops]

This morning when I saw this poll again, even though I answered it before, my first thought was: Australia! Hehe

[Parth]

This morning when I saw this poll again, even though I answered it before, my first thought was: Australia! Hehe

Haha, that would be my answer too. Come October the answer will become "Brazil", however :D

[jaybird721]

Does this have to be with someone we're "dating"/have a romantic interest in? Because I have been a party to friendly, platonic hugging and occasional hand holding [usual during friend trauma].

[summerbreeze]

One would think that it were the former, since most everybody has hugged someone who was a friend or family member or held their hands, esp. during times of trouble. So, I think she meant have you done anything in terms of romance/relationships? and not friendly gestures.

[Parth]

Yeah, what poppies said.

Sorry everyone for not being clear about stuff. I didn't think it through too well :oops:

[summerbreeze]

Hi,

Don't be sorry. I think it was pretty obvious. Some people here like to be anal. Though I think this questioner sincerely didn't know. We just can't let the anal ones "rule the roost" so to speak.

[dicerotops]

Haha, that would be my answer too. Come October the answer will become "Brazil", however

I think Australia is further than Brazil. Hmmm. The air miles are great though! Have fun!

[Manathane]

Hi,

Don't be sorry. I think it was pretty obvious. Some people here like to be anal. Though I think this questioner sincerely didn't know. We just can't let the anal ones "rule the roost" so to speak.

I don't think anyone here was being anal at all. Just because it was obvious to you doesn't mean it was obvious for everyone. :?

[Parth]

Haha, that would be my answer too. Come October the answer will become "Brazil", however

I think Australia is further than Brazil. Hmmm. The air miles are great though! Have fun!

Well, FROM Australia, Brazil is further. And I live in Australia

[Fayetje]

I've given/received pecks on the lips from friends of both sexes. High school parties. :P I don't think I've held hands with anyone outside of family though. o.o

[theblackwatch]

I did not have one of the things between brackets.

[Piano]

Wales! Sorry, I just like to jump on bandwagons. :)

Asexual, had sex. Oral, to be specific, though I didn't really consider it sex until recently. It was just such a non-event. Boring. (I'm one of the 'indifferent' types)

[Piano]

Eep. Sorry if specifying was TMI, I just don't get creeped out by anything, so I'm never sure how much I should say.