Rosendust Posted January 8, 2019 Share Posted January 8, 2019 Hey everyone, so this person I've been seeing is ramping up the sex talk, but I'm perfectly fine with the way things are going. For reference, this is our first month we've been officially together. And I forgot to mention, I'm very sex-repulsed. Help? Regards, Rosendust Link to post Share on other sites
Serra Posted January 8, 2019 Share Posted January 8, 2019 You need to make sure to set up boundaries- if they're talking about sex and you arent interested you need to let them know. otherwise it will be a misunderstanding and it may not end well if you arent clear on what you both want... or dont want. COMMUNICATION IS IMPORTANT IN A RELATIONSHIP! Link to post Share on other sites
GoneForGood Posted January 8, 2019 Share Posted January 8, 2019 I agree. Make it perfectly clear, if you don't want sex don't have it. I wish someone had told me that this was allowed. Link to post Share on other sites
SeeYa Posted January 8, 2019 Share Posted January 8, 2019 Well, it has already been said but I think it can be repeated at least 50 times... Communication is key, it goes both ways, if neither of you say what you mean you will never reach understanding. Boundaries, they need to be as clear as you can make them. Compromise, most relationships involve compromise in some areas, be clear where that is and isn't okay for you. Respect, if one of you is not respecting the other, then the relationship will likely become toxic or breakdown. Give respect and be given respect. It's what you deserve. Link to post Share on other sites
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