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I've been a closet tickle fetish for most all of my life starting from adolescence. Lately for the past few years or so I've been having this deep longing of the physical and emotional connection you experience from tickling, the problem though is that I'm the only one who knows of my "specific interests" and I'm way too shy to tell someone. I haven't really had a tickling experience with another person. I don't have a sexual tickling fetish mind you, I just really have a fixation for some dumb reason and seriously feel so trapped and lonely in this fruitless endeavor. What could I possibly do? Dating is out of the question and I have a hard time trusting people, they can scare or confuse me easily... I just feel so stuck or stranded. 

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AroaceScriptette

How old are you if you don't mind me asking? Also, what is it you actually want? Like is it one person you can explore this with or just anyone? Is it a platonic thing, sexual, sensual, romantic? I have no experience with this but i can try and help maybe? :)

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Purple Wanderer

I've never considered there being an emotional connection to tickling. Do you have no interest in a partner beyond a desire for tickling?  A partner is the only way I can see you achieving what you want, 

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On 12/15/2018 at 2:53 PM, AromanticScriptette said:

How old are you if you don't mind me asking? Also, what is it you actually want? Like is it one person you can explore this with or just anyone? Is it a platonic thing, sexual, sensual, romantic? I have no experience with this but i can try and help maybe? :)

I'm 23 and I have no interest in sex or even kissing for that fact. I hate to bring such a stupid desire on something like this but I feel I've got no where to go but tumblr and we'll.... Tumblr isn't the greatest place to talk about personal things and be taken remotely seriously.

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On 12/15/2018 at 6:18 PM, Purple Wanderer said:

I've never considered there being an emotional connection to tickling. Do you have no interest in a partner beyond a desire for tickling?  A partner is the only way I can see you achieving what you want, 

I do not, kind've sad to hear that 😕

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AroaceScriptette

Well i know that you wont be the only one who experiences this and that means there is probably a way you could act on it but unfortunately i dont know it. I do agree that its probably easier if its come about from a friendship, relationship, queer platonic relationship. 

 

I find that the more open i am about something, the more i hear or see it around me and the more people i know tell me they have also experienced something. So maybe building up to a point where you feel more comfortable to talk about it to people will provide opportunities or at least someone feeling the same way? Obviously just ignore that if its not safe to talk about or if you cant talk about it but i thought id throw it out there! 

 

I honestly hope this works out for you! 

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19 hours ago, AromanticScriptette said:

Well i know that you wont be the only one who experiences this and that means there is probably a way you could act on it but unfortunately i dont know it. I do agree that its probably easier if its come about from a friendship, relationship, queer platonic relationship. 

 

I find that the more open i am about something, the more i hear or see it around me and the more people i know tell me they have also experienced something. So maybe building up to a point where you feel more comfortable to talk about it to people will provide opportunities or at least someone feeling the same way? Obviously just ignore that if its not safe to talk about or if you cant talk about it but i thought id throw it out there! 

 

I honestly hope this works out for you! 

Thanks for the advice I really do appreciate it, nah it's not taboo to speak of it'd just feel like I'm talking about porn or some kind of weird sex thing even though it's not lol. It just feels like it's weird and I even treat it like porn, that being Google searches via annon and reading really sweet, very platonic and humorous fanfiction. Funny how things are the way they are lol. I'll take what you said with a grain of salt, I feel as though if I truly ever were to experience that feeling i think it'd have to happen naturally.... like sex *cough*. I've read that a lot of people who have a tickle fetish usually have it sexually (I cant see how but you do you I guess) even though I've never really associated it with sex or even arousal just bonding and good ol' fun times, weird huh?

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I can definitely relate! I definitely see tickling in my relationship as an emotional connection that has a lot to do with trust. I also love being tickled for that reason and would fantasize about it before being in a relationship. The best thing is to be honest with yourself and others about what specifically you're looking for and to know that maybe not everyone will understand, but the risk is so worth it if it leads you to someone who fulfills your needs ❤️  

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On 1/10/2019 at 6:07 PM, Ellen Lauren said:

I can definitely relate! I definitely see tickling in my relationship as an emotional connection that has a lot to do with trust. I also love being tickled for that reason and would fantasize about it before being in a relationship. The best thing is to be honest with yourself and others about what specifically you're looking for and to know that maybe not everyone will understand, but the risk is so worth it if it leads you to someone who fulfills your needs ❤️  

Thank you for the reply, I'll take what you said to heart ^^

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