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TreMartEyes

I have never had an orgasm in my life. I still try even though I know its kind of pointless.  I enjoy the feeling its kind of like an itch that needs to be scratched. It isn't driven by my environment but from something inside. 

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will123
2 hours ago, TreMartEyes said:

I have never had an orgasm in my life. I still try even though I know its kind of pointless.  I enjoy the feeling its kind of like an itch that needs to be scratched. It isn't driven by my environment but from something inside. 

At least you're trying. I'm not sure what my reaction would be to no orgasm when I pleasure myself.

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argar

@TreMartEyes

 

I have had at least two orgasm's in my life. 

 

So at the very least I know the difference between having an orgasm and not having an orgasm.

 

Special circumstances lead to the orgasm in both cases, and it was a while ago. 

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I don't get spontaneous or uncontrolled erections anymore. In some ways that is a benefit. With 'stimulation' my erections are just as 'strong' as they were in my younger days.

 

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TreMartEyes
On 11/11/2019 at 8:45 AM, argar said:

@TreMartEyes

 

I have had at least two orgasm's in my life. 

 

So at the very least I know the difference between having an orgasm and not having an orgasm.

 

Special circumstances lead to the orgasm in both cases, and it was a while ago. 

Was it the lack of trying or did you feel you could get your self to that point. 

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Dances With Cats

I'm 51 and I masturbate. Not very often, but to me it's like scratching an itch. There are no sexual fantasies involved, just me and my vibe.

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20 hours ago, Dances With Cats said:

I'm 51 and I masturbate. Not very often, but to me it's like scratching an itch. There are no sexual fantasies involved, just me and my vibe.

I should've added a comment yesterday (lack of sleep will do that).

 

I liked your post because it was nice to see that you're comfortable enough to post about it here on AVEN.

 

I never felt any shame in doing it, but before I joined AVEN a couple of years ago, the discussion is generally negative.

 

Most people here that post about masturbating do so in a positive way.

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JenniBee

Its all about the endorphin release for me. Means to an end.

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BeeCow891

I find myself masturbating as a means of a high and tiring myself out to go to sleep some nights. Although sometimes it takes too much effort, and it makes things worse than before (no real release, spent too long and overtired myself which means I won't sleep as easily).

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Gnomeish

Annoying. Get the feeling of my body parts acting against my interest because I ate too many apples or whatever triggers some sort of hormone and the feeling like having to pee gets too much. Once a month, maybe. Takes for-fucking-ever, only works to imagine fictional characters, always two guys, made me hella confused if I wanted to be a guy for a while. (No thanks I have enough body hair as it is, lol.)

 

So lame.

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nerdography

I masturbated more when I was younger. Maybe once a week. But, now in my late 30s, I might do it once a month, if that.

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AJ 0688

I'm Asexual and I find I still have abit of an urge around my ovulation period before my menstrual cycle. 

 

So I tend to masturbate. As I saw someone say before on here that it's a like scratching an itch and I don't feel a need or urge to find a partner to help with that. 

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will123
2 hours ago, AJ 0688 said:

 I don't feel a need or urge to find a partner to help with that. 

A lot less drama involved as well.

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